True happiness is a feeling a person may feel in his life. It is not from anything that happiness from people although some behaviors others this may interfere with his happiness or sadness. Most people think happiness comes from other people or when a person is with others. That idea may be created because when a person was a baby or a child, his happiness always comes when he plays with others or grownups as a person has grown-ups play with him.
Usually a person realizes his happiness can only be controlled by himself. There are sometimes a person’s happiness may be disturbed from outside problems ( if they are really big, complicated ) but most of the times true happiness is from inside a person no matter who he is living, if he has problems or not. Most of the times if a person is in a bad mood, it is a result of his own thoughts. His ideas are powerful, if he thought of a happy idea, he will be happy and if he thought of a sad idea he will be sad. This does not mean the things in the outside world, such as people around him and the circumstances he is in does not interfere with his feelings.
A person should try not to let his happiness with other people or linked with other people’s happiness. Whenever a person discovers his happiness map is with him and only he can be happy, almost no one can let him really feel sad if he was happy because he will most likely feel he has a wall prevent other people’s words and behaviors from interfering with his emotions. Most of the times a person can decide if he wants to be happy or sad in any circumstances, this really means a person’s happiness switch is with himself.