Massages and peace of mind

In these days people get tensed and nerves easily because of their daily scadual. Usually when a person sits for long hours,specially thinking about her problems but she dose not finds the way to solve them, this situation let her feel nerves all the day and needs to use some things to help her feel more relaxed. Sometimes when a person’s body is relaxed she will feel less nervous.

A person may take long baths then massages at home,if these ways help her feel more relaxed. There are some products a person who wants to do a spa at home or a relaxing day could use them. Such as scrub for the feet and a spa foot massager. There are some people go to the saloon to take care of their selves more professionally. There are some people do a spa day at home,I prefer a person takes care of his body on daily basis,such as if a person likes massages she should use them daily. A person should do more often the things she likes or she feels they let her feel more relaxed.

People from all ages, should be happy and relaxed in their lives,their daily scadual. A person’s emotions and his body are connected,such as if a person heard sad news or thought of sad,hopless ideas he may have headache. A person should always be relaxed,emotionally and physically. This dose not mean a person do not excersice.

Relaxing tips:

1. Think of happy ideas. (only happy thoughts)

2.Take long bath and put some salt or oil bath.

3. Use creams

4. Make your hair differently

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The real meaning

Did you ever thought what does ( I love you ) phrase really means? These words are very special when they are spoken or written, especially if they were from a special person because they let the receiver feel happy. It lets a person be in a good mood because it tells him, he is accepted as he is by a specific person.

When a person say “I love you” to a specific person, it really means he accepts the other person as she or he is, without trying to change him and he always feels he wants her or him to be beside him all of the time. It also means a person accepts the other person as he is and he feels that person is his other half, it also means a person’s heart and thoughts are with the other person. (This only happens between men and women.) A person does not need to say “I love you” phrase to let the other person know, he could tell he loves that specific person by his behaviours. Usually behaviours are stronger than words.

Love is a beautiful feeling but since it is a feeling, it means people cannot look directly at it. Some people may use it as an excuse to do anything they want, even if the things they want to do harm others. This is the reason many people, women and men doubt when a person ( if from the other type) said it to them.

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Act as your words

In some cultures, men should to stick firmly to their words, but women do not have to. Usually people respects a person who says something and do not change his words later. A person’s behaviours should prove his words,phrase. Men and women should behave in that way.This does not mean a person never changes his thoughts and behaves as a rock, a person should behave to similar to a tree. ( For the tree and rock, you can read ways of living article)

Most of the times when a person do as he said he would do, people will start to treat him as a grown up person. A person whose behaviours and words proves the same thing is a real mature, strong person. Most on the times when a person’s behaviours are the opposite of his words, others will not really depend on him in anything he says.

Usually a person needs to have a strong personality and should be really convinced in the subject or ideas he is talking about to do the things he said he will do. Most of the times grownups are respected because they do not frequently change their words meanings. A person should always think many times about the words he planing to say because once they have been said, a person who said them should prove for others he really mean them.

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Apologising from men and women

The best thing a person could do after feeling guilty for hurting  other person’s feelings is to apologise. Apologising doesn’t necessarily means a person says (I am sorry or I was wrong. Apologies could be shown by a person’s behaviours such as eye contact or gives presents.        

   Apologise for men

Usually men have hard times if a man wants to apologise. Most of the times men choses to apologise to others, specially women by their behaviours. Usually it is hard for men to say ( I am sorry, I was wrong ) this is why they chose to show their regret feelings by their behaviours. This does not mean there are no men say ( I am sorry, I was wrong) but they are few.
   

 Apologise for women

Usually, most women can easily apologise to others. Most women choses to apologise by words. Some women may also show they are sorry by their behaviours.

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Teenagers and love

Most of the times when a person is a teenager his or her emotions forces her or him or lets him or her to do different behaviours. Usually teenagers have tough times understanding themselves,boys and girls. This is why most teenagers can easily be nerves or angry.Usually teenagers quickly judge others, such as if a person likes something specific about another person then this means for him or her, that feelings means love and wants to live with him or her for the rest of her or his life.

Usually a teenager, a male or female can quickly be attracted and not attracted to a person. This does not mean a teenager will never find love in his life. There are sometimes a teenager may find her or his love. Love does mean have to be two people, men and women have feelings for each other. Love can be felt by just by one person towards another person. Usually it is hard for a teenager to know if the feelings she or he feels towards a specific person is a crush or love, this is why a teenager may have several crushes.

Teenagers usually do not have self-control. This is why usually teenagers do not control their emotions, feelings from showing. Usually a teenager overreact or his feelings controls his thoughts and behaviours more than his ideas.

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Mind and Feelings

There are some people’s emotions control their behaviours. Most of the times when a person’s emotions control his behaviours, his actions and behaviours won’t be reasonable. There are some situations a person needs to behave only by his thoughts, such as if a person thinks specific person did something wrong, he says his opinion. In other situations a person may need to behave by his feelings or emotions such as if a person saw his friend crying or upset, he should sit and talk, to let him feel better.

Men

Usually men are known, for their self-control and thinking way. They do not behave by certain behaviours just because of their emotions. Most of the times their feelings do not come over their thoughts and behaviours. Meanwhile in some situations men’s feelings or emotions can really control their behaviours such as if a man really loves a specific women.

Women

Women are known for their emotions controlling their behaviours more than their ideas. They are opposite of men. This does not mean all women think with their emotions. There are sometimes a woman may just behave by her ideas but most or all woman’s behaviours are based on her emotions.

Each person may need to behave in certain moments in his life just by his ideas and not his emotions and sometimes a person may need to behave by his feelings or emotions. Men and women have feelings and emotions, both of them may need to behave just by their ideas and in other times by their feelings and emotions.

 

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Apologising

Sometimes a person goes through small fights with people he cares about. Most of the times when a person starts attacking the other person ( by words) with anger because his or her emotions are stronger than him or her, the other person should not respond in the same way if he or she wants to avoid any unhappy moments,relationships. A person who is hearing the person who is talking should stop responding if  his or her emotions are stronger than them and controlling them .

When a person is angry , the best thing the other person could do is to listen to him but do not respond with his own opinion. A person should try his best to prevent himself from arguing anyone, men or women. Usually If a women argues with a men he will get more angry and he feels he is not appreciated by her. The first person who apologise for hurting the other person’s feelings appreciates the relationship.Apologising doesn’t always a person needs to say (sorry) it could be shown by their behaviours and it does not have to means the person who is apologising is wrong. 

One of the best ways a person can do is,he should wait few seconds if the other person is angry or crying ( his emotions guide his behaviours ) to respond. If a person can wait for a while to talk about the topic that let them feel angry it will be better because most of the times people who were arguing or angry at each other will not feel the same level of anger in that time. Most of the times if a person is not angry he or she can say more reasonable things or things that may let the other person be convinced in his idea. Usually if a person argues with another person ( both of them angry ) they will have a big fight.

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Men and Women

These days, there are some people fight for woman’s rights. It is very good thing for any person, a women or a man to have all of his rights. Unfortunately some people just like to talk about this subject and fight for it even if the women in her or his country have all of her rights. There should be no rules to prevent a person to do anything just because of his sex, such as just because she is a woman she cannot do specific things or the opposite.

There are some woman just like to fight for woman’s rights that they forget to behave like a woman! ًWomen should always be calm and confident when she communicates with others, such as if a woman shouts or say impolite words to others while communicating with them, she loses some of the things that let her look or be a woman. There are in life behaviours only men do and some behaviours only women should do.

When a woman tries to be like a man, such as taking certain roles in life, or even if she do things just to prove others they are wrong, she stops being a woman anymore. A woman is a person who believes in her self and she knows she does not need to do anything just to prove others anything or just to show them she is able to do certain things.

Sadly, people who always fight for women’s rights ignore the facts that men have feelings. Usually they just fight for woman’s rights ( even if the things they say should never be a women’s right ) and they ignore men’s rights. Boys, men and fathers can have deep feelings for others too. In some places people do not treat men (fathers) as they should be treated. They treat them as if fathers do not have feelings towards their children!

                Love to Men 

Sadly, these days some people treat love as if it only belongs to women. This idea is wrong, not realistic and it is unfair. Men do love. Usually love is stronger than men, they cannot hide it for a long time. Usually men have the power or wants to do anything his woman wants just to let her feel happy.

Love to women 

Usually when a women really loves a man, she will be honest,loyal to him all of the times and never take advantage of him. She sees him as the only person who really can protect her from anything bad or sad that happiness in life. She will be always ready to help him or at least try to help him to solve all of his problems all of the times.

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