Do you behave in social media as would you behave in real life ?

I recently noticed some people’s social media do not represent their life. I know it do not have to but I think pretending to be someone else all the day is exhausting, the thing I recently noticed and it took me by surprise, I needed some days to reflect or think about it before I write about in in the blog.

I notice some people behave in a certain way in the real life but they act the opposite on social media, on their personal accounts. I do understand that some people like to create or draw a certain personality, in front of others in real life and on social media to get certain amount of respect but I think it is over used. For example there are some people are understanding in conversations and accept to listen to the other and opposite opinion on social media places but when they are confronted in real life, they behave the opposite. I think that behavior is really ridiculous.

Here are some questions for you to help you discover the answers:

1.Are you showing the truth to others ?

  1. Dose your social media accounts show the real you or the words and photos, pictures and videos you post are they just there to show others a “fake, improved version of yourself?

I do see the reasons when business accounts behave in that way and I think they have too. What I am writing about here is not business accounts. I meant is personal accounts. I think since the account is for personal use, it at least show the TRUE and positive sides of a person’s life if he, she wants to but it should be true. Such as if a person always say in videos and writes about forgiving others he, she should apply that idea in his/her real life, if a person did not do the things or ideas that it is in the accounts, it most likely means that person is not real to himself and his followers!

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How did It start?

I love writing very much. I always write down on paper everything, thoughts and feelings even before there was the idea of social media accounts. Then my father told me about Twitter then I created an account for me there. I started to put tweets there and some of them were long tweets ( they took several tweets to get to the idea I wanted to share )

Then my sister suggested that I create a blog to write in it since it does not has any typing ( characters) limit. We made 3  blogs till now ( they are not working now, except this one ) I know most people say it’s better to share your thoughts face to face but most of the times I feel writing or sharing my ideas in writing is better at least for me because it helps me to rearrange and rethink my thoughts and opinions about a specific topic and it lets me be more reasonable.

When I first started writing in a blog, my writing was not perfect nor it is near this article, I meant I was worse and I think I am getting better. Everyone can learn a new skill by observing others and applying to his own life, for me I watched YouTube videos and took people’s point of view in consideration and did my best to let my work of writing be the best it can be in the time it was published in.

I think of writing anything is kind of freedom from anything that might put pressure on me, and sometimes ( not often ) it’s kind of communication. It can be seen as an art, in my opinion, most of the times, it depends on how a writer delivers his thoughts to the readers. I am NOT writings about topics such as news or facts, I meant the articles that have the writer perspective in them.

 

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Smart technology and people

Did the smartphones and other technology forces people in the same place to stop talking to each other or they just use them to avoid people to communicate with them and blame the smart mobiles for their behaviors?

Most people if not all behave in that way: Uses his phone in public. 

I think people MOST of the times chose to use their phones. There are many reasons a person behaves in that way in public or in a gathering.

  • Being bored
  • There are really interesting things on the net that attract them.

Some people may see a person uses a phone in public is an impolite thing to do because it may put an invisible wall between people who are sitting together in the same place. There are some circumstances a person needs to use his phone while he is with others and it is accepted if he did but most of the times it is not accepted.

 

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Imagination Before

Before the inventions of anything a person needs his vision to use them such as televisions and other things, most people can imagine things and are creative. In the past, most people know how to create new stories and tell them to others or the younger generations as a bedtime story. In those days people really had a social life and they have a good imagination. Sadly, these days people do not know how to imagine stuff or a person do not sits in his or her room and just imagine things happening, it is similar when a person dreams.

In the past, people used to sit for hours thinking while they imagine things as if they go to another world of their own thoughts.  The more a person gets time to think about different things without using his visions is the better his imaginations will be. Usually, a person’s imagination is related to his real life and his wishes, at least in the first few moments of his imaginations then it might get into something else.

A person needs to prevent himself from getting too attached to any kind of technology. Technology has its own benefits but it also has some bad points, like everything else in life. If a person really wants to live his life, every second of it he or she needs to physically go to others and talk to them. Most of the times technology let a person be anti-social by letting him think he has a social life because he has social applications on his mobile but in reality, he is just sitting in one place, such as his room.  A person should not be considered a social person if he did not physically or in real life go to the other person and talk to him.

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Social places and relationships

In these days most people use social media. There are some people use social media to sell their products. Most people use them to express their opinions and ideas. There are sometimes a person may start a conversation with others in those places too. Social media places are like anything in life, it can be used for good or bad ways.

Unfortunately, these days some people focus more on their social media friends more than their real life’s relationships. This is one of the reasons real-life relationships do not last for a lifetime, especially marriage. Any person needs to be available all of his time for the other partner, in his mind, thoughts and physically.

Relationships, especially married people should be very careful when dealing with them. Partners, husband and wife’s relationships usually are very sensitive. Usually, people who are in relationships want the relationship to last forever. One of the tips they could use is to avoid using any of the social media places all of the times and use that time to be closer to each other with their feelings through communicating or talking. They should never publish or put in any social media place their problems or things others did to them because this way they tell everyone who reads the things they have written the things the other person had done especially bad things. This way may prevent a person who did the wrong thing to apologize and it may let him feel some hate feelings towards that person. A person should use any social media properly by not using them while the time he needs to be with others or the time others needs him with them.

You can read a related article in http://gentlemenhood.com/3-things-to-remember-about-social-media-and-relationships/ and: http://gentlemenhood.com/why-you-should-keep-your-relationship-private-and-off-of-social-media/

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