انت بادر أولا
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،‪ في الأونه الأخيره لاحظت غالبا الناس يظهرون ردود افعالهم اكثر من ان هم يبادرون و كأن يجب على الجميع ان لا يبادرون بطرح افكارهم، أو ممنوع عليهم ان يبادرون لكن يجب عليهم ان يظهرون للاخرين ردود افعالهم اتجاه مواضيع مختلفة . عندما يبادرالشخص  بطرح افكارة ، فهو يضيف تنوع جديد من الأحاديث و الواضيع المتنوعة ولكن  إذا كل انسان فقد يظهر ردود افعاله اتجاه الآخرين و احداث الحياة فهو لن يضيف شيئ  أو افكار جديدة وغالبا يكون نوع الطرح ممل، غير جاذب للاخرين لأنه لم يصنع رأيه بنفسه أو يظيف شيء جديد .

التأثربالاخرين ليس بالظرورة شيئ سيئ، ممكن ان يكون العكس لكن في اعتقادي اذا الإنسان دائما ينتظر من الأخرين ان يفعلو له الاشياء فهو كطفل صغير لكن في جسم انسان كبير في العمر. مثلا اذا الانسان وقع في مشكله لكن لا يسعى لحلها و يلوم الاخرين فهو، فقط ينتظر من الاخرين حلها فهو لم يكبر بعد.لكن اذا الانسان الذي وقع في مشكله كان يسعى لحلها حتى لو في بعض الاحيان يلوم الناس الذين سببوا له المشكله فهو انسان مبادر في نظري لانه يبادر الى تحسين حياته .

ليكون لديك آفعال و ليس دائما ردة فعل

في اغلب الاحيان الافكار الجديدة لا تجد الكثير من الناس الذين يتقبلونها و هذا ممكن ان يسب عائق لدى بعض الناس فيمنعهم ان يشاركوا الاخرين افكارهم و مشاريعهم المستقبلية، لكن كل شخص له حياته و افكاره الخاصة التي يعتقد انها مناسبة له. اعندما الإنسان يشارك الاخرين افكاره و مشاريعه، يجب عليه أن لا يتحبط من كلامهم لأنهم لن يشعروا بمشاعره

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Organizing from watching others
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Watching organizing the place videos on YouTube, made me make my place more organized. I watch a lot of them and there are three channels that changed me.

I always had an idea: my place represents my feelings and thoughts.

My ideas and the way of thinking shows in the room or in the place that I live in, such as if a person has organized thoughts and he truly understands himself then the place he lives in, most likely will be organized. I recently discovered the opposite of this idea is true!

I took some of the tips that were helpful to me and applied them to my place. I always had some not organized place to for the small stuff that I have,need but then things changed:

I had organized my place, inside the cabinets and the things that on display.

Organizing my place inspired me to let my thoughts be organized too!

Now it’s like that
Now it’s like that

The make up was hardly organized, there were half of them in that box and the others are scattered all over the place, but then I bought the make up holder, about a year before I had saw the videos, I was not really using it, my makeup were in different parts in my room, then after I saw the videos I used it more.

Now it’s like that

I discovered: when the place is well organized and clean it will effect the person’s mood and productivity!!

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Focus on yourself
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A person should focus on himself, not others and how fast they had reached their goals. Each person should have his own speed. In my opinion, a person should always try to improve himself in all aspects of his life.

I think if a person is trying to improve himself, he will not be curious about other people’s life, gossip or anything that does not adds good, ideas in his life. From few days I felt I am a sort of a bad person. I spend most of my day doing short term happiness things such as playing games on my mobile even when I need to do other things such as exercising.

A few days ago I thought of an idea that really helped me, in my opinion.

The thought is:

If I will do anything that will take time in my day ( hours) I ask my self two questions: Will it improve my life in any way? Am I enjoying it? 

If the answer is yes to the first question that I continue doing it even if I am not enjoying doing that task but I will most likely like the results.

If the answer is no to the second question and I won’t benefit from that thing I am doing, in the future then I stop doing it and go do another thing that will benefit me in my future. I found those two questions helped me to be more productive and healthier too.

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Inspiration Schedule
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There are some days a person may feel  he do not want to do anything that has hard work or it takes long time to finish but whenever a person starts to be lazy, he won’t finish any big tasks. Each person needs a unique way to get in working, productive mode. I want to share with you the way that I feel it bests suites me:

I make a daily schedule on my phone  to help me be inspired or more productive and I write to do list usually in the morning ( when I wake up ) or before I go to sleep. I found this helpful tip on a video in the internet. After I get my breakfast I try to finish my to-do list for the day.

Here is an example of how the schedule could be like:

1. Be creative

2. Check blog post 

3. Exercise

4. Go to take  photos

5. Read something important, new and inspiring

6. Mind and body care

Its fine even if I did not finish all the tasks that I had put but at least I did some of them till the end of the day. I think I saw another video on the web the idea was I give myself points at the end of the day as I finish each task. ( I really liked that idea, I want to try it soon. )

 

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An environment for successful life
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Most of the times when new technology device is in shops, people buy it, just because it is new, not because they need it such as how most people listen to music. Each person should make  an environment that best suites him, even if most people see it as wrong or old ways to do certain tasks if it helps him get creative.

A person should learn new things in his life in any topic but he still should live his life ( privet and social ) in the way he like as long as he is NOT harming others and their feelings intentionally. Creating or finding the best environment for a person to keep being productive is not always easy but it is worth the time for  a person to find a suitable way to help him be more motivated in life and productive.

The main differences between a child and a grownup are responsibility and productivity. It does not always have to do or connected to profit. Being productive mainly means for me is to try to add good things in the world or change the bad things in life or at least in my circle of family, friends and any person I can make his life better or at least one day better in his life.

I always thought I was not addictive to my phone till recently because I took a while not writing on this website and other productive things I used to do. When I saw some videos on the internet about being productive, they helped me a lot from the first day I used them.

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