Some people may need help in the daily chores others do not. There is nothing wrong for a person to ask help or an assistant in anything he needs help in but he should not always depends on others to help him or do his chores, specially taking care of his kids. The parent’s kids are their responsibility, that means both of them should be the first ones who takes care of the babies.
There are some people depend on maids or babysitters if their child needs anything. In some situation a person may need some help in taking care of his kids but he or she should never totally depend on the babysitters or maids in taking care of their own children, for so many reasons. The babysitter or maids are supposed to help the parents or who are in charge of the baby for a while but should never be in charge of him or her for every single thing in his or her life because this situation may lead the baby to love or be more attached with the babysitter than his real parents.
A baby and a child should have a special, love connection between himself and his or her parents, brothers and sisters grand-mothers and grand-fathers. This kind of connection may only be available is a person is spending time with the baby or kid. Babies and young kids hardly can know the difference between family love or a person takes care of him ( physically.) Usually he sees both of them are symbols of love. That is one of the biggest reasons parents should always be the ones who take care of their little ones. House workers, (babysitters or maids ) should only help the parents if they really needed help.