Be YOU

Most people like to fit in with others. I think this kind of behavior demolishes the uniqueness a person has and that is sad. I think whenever a person try to copy others in any way, he is wasting his time, I think most likely he does not know the impact he has.

 

There are certain things I noticed some people are behaving in, I have other ideas about them.

  • Complaining; I do not like it because most of the times it dose not  help solve the issue.  Complaining should only used if a person really wants/ needs to hear other useful opinions about a specific subject, not just to attract attention because it comes across as petty.
  • Be you, do not go after a goal just because most people did. Most of the times it is tough for a person to show others his real self but this dose not mean he/she do not be herself in front of others. I mean if a person is interested in something most people are not interested in, he should not feel ashamed or shy about it and he should never try to hide his true self just because he thinks in a different way than most people he knows 

Think of these ideas:

Why be simller to everyone else?

Work on yourself, improve yourself, in your own timeline not according to others

 

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The art of communication

Conversation; At least two people are sharing some information equally.

Speech: most of the times,only person is speaking.

I love when people put feelings in theirs way of speaking, such as when a person tells others something with excitement, the audience can feel the excitement he had felt because of his voice tone, as he lets his voice be little higher, the listeners will likely be more interested and excited to hear what is the next thing he will say.

That above example is different then screaming or shouting.

I think there are special occasions a person may need to say a speech but I think for not formal occasions; people being together and a person starts a speech, it is rude and disrespectful for others especially if they were not asked.

I noticed sometimes if people are in a group then, a person say something about a topic then continuously talks non stop. I think it is not polite behavior, just to ignore anybody.

There are some situations, the talking is always from one person only, he, do not let others say their opinion because he is in a rush to talk. Most of those times I get nervous because I think that they person is not trying to keep up the conversation but turning it to a speech and not considering other people’s rights and feelings.

I personally do not like speeches except if the situation needs it because they usually serve only one thing and do not show others (the speaker’s ) real personality due to its being pre- planned. I think they are very good for graduating for example.

What about you? What are your thoughts?

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With others

Most people think that if they pretend to be interested in a specific topic, it won’t appear to others they are pretending but actually, people do notice.

Similar to creating a character in a story but in real life, a person act or behave as they think how the image in his/her mind could do. I think this is the reason people do not show their true selves.  

In my opinion: When a person shows to others his true self, others will love to spend thier time with him and they will really get to know each other because they can show him their real thoughts too. It could be scary for a person to show others his true self without comparing himself with the idea he has in his mind but it is worth it.

Just discovered: To be interesting to others: you have to be interested in the topic you are talking about.

If you are not interested even if you are showing to the other person the opposite, he will notice in a way or another.

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Organizing from watching others

Watching organizing the place videos on YouTube, made me make my place more organized. I watch a lot of them and there are three channels that changed me.

I always had an idea: my place represents my feelings and thoughts.

My ideas and the way of thinking shows in the room or in the place that I live in, such as if a person has organized thoughts and he truly understands himself then the place he lives in, most likely will be organized. I recently discovered the opposite of this idea is true!

I took some of the tips that were helpful to me and applied them to my place. I always had some not organized place to for the small stuff that I have,need but then things changed:

I had organized my place, inside the cabinets and the things that on display.

Organizing my place inspired me to let my thoughts be organized too!

Now it’s like that

Now it’s like that

The make up was hardly organized, there were half of them in that box and the others are scattered all over the place, but then I bought the make up holder, about a year before I had saw the videos, I was not really using it, my makeup were in different parts in my room, then after I saw the videos I used it more.

Now it’s like that

I discovered: when the place is well organized and clean it will effect the person’s mood and productivity!!

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You’r mood is your responsibilty

Sometimes when a person socialize with others their mood effects him. Each person should create is own atmosphere that he likes and feels cosy while in it, at least few hours before night sleep time. I had been doing this method for a while and it really helps me emotionally and makes me feel happier.

Each person no matter where he is or whats are his thoughts and believes, if he is surrounding himself with negative conversations then he will feel sadness or nerves. I am not  saying a person should avoid being with others all the times, but the hours a persons spends in the day are hours that are part of his life, as an example  if he wasted hours in his day he is not being productive nor having fun then he is really wasting times (years) of his life

No matter how busy a person is, he, she should always take some few hours a day to take care of himself by himself only. I usually take some time to myself during the day but I really love taking quality time for myself, few hours before I sleep. It helps me to take care of me self ( my ideas and physically ) In that time I release or let go of all the negative ideas and try to improve myself mentally.  I feel a person is mentally improving means, a person improve or at least try to improve his life style, he/she feel loved and a person is enjoying his own company.

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How did It start?

I love writing very much. I always write down on paper everything, thoughts and feelings even before there was the idea of social media accounts. Then my father told me about Twitter then I created an account for me there. I started to put tweets there and some of them were long tweets ( they took several tweets to get to the idea I wanted to share )

Then my sister suggested that I create a blog to write in it since it does not has any typing ( characters) limit. We made 3  blogs till now ( they are not working now, except this one ) I know most people say it’s better to share your thoughts face to face but most of the times I feel writing or sharing my ideas in writing is better at least for me because it helps me to rearrange and rethink my thoughts and opinions about a specific topic and it lets me be more reasonable.

When I first started writing in a blog, my writing was not perfect nor it is near this article, I meant I was worse and I think I am getting better. Everyone can learn a new skill by observing others and applying to his own life, for me I watched YouTube videos and took people’s point of view in consideration and did my best to let my work of writing be the best it can be in the time it was published in.

I think of writing anything is kind of freedom from anything that might put pressure on me, and sometimes ( not often ) it’s kind of communication. It can be seen as an art, in my opinion, most of the times, it depends on how a writer delivers his thoughts to the readers. I am NOT writings about topics such as news or facts, I meant the articles that have the writer perspective in them.

 

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Plans for your life

It is always great to see your plan A, becoming a reality but sometimes in life, the person’s first plan do not really work or he does not get the results he wants in his life. This is the reason a person should always have a plan B or a back up plan, ready to use or he can work on it at anytime. There are sometimes I think the more options or plans a person has for his life is the better, not just two plans such as (First plan, second plan, third plan ) he should figure out plans as many as he can if the first plan he has do not work out.

Off course plans do not work in a person’s life until he acts towards them. A person should not get board from starting all over again because there could be a missed opportunity he had missed that he could get the things or results he wants.

Most of the times if not all of the times, a plan helps a person to reach his life goals when he really stick to his plan. I imagine my plans as my helpers to do or have the results that I want.

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The night of discoveries

I was about to watch a television series that I love than the reality became very visible to my eyes  and I just sat on the ground for few minutes (I want to watch the series to pass the time till I get sleepy then I realised I am always doing things just to pass the time and not being productive, not trying to change my life or the things I really hate about it and that fact really scared me, because I always talk with others and I think that I do almost all of the things that I need to do or want to do but in reality I did not behave toward my dreams or at least one of my goals.

From the next day I changed, I started to work at least about fifteen minutes a day  on one post or work that in my opinion it has good effect on other people. I think a person should always has the power to change his life even if there are certain things that happened in the past and they effected his present and future. In the past I used to always ask myself (who are you?) I took that idea from my favorite t.v series that I loved when I was a teenager and I still do, it has real life lessons that could be applied to ours in  these days. Recently I forgot about that thought. It is really  helpful to know your thoughts and rethink them after a while to see if they are still correct or do they still make sense for yourself.

The days are made from seconds, the seconds are added together to become minutes, when the minutes are added together they will be hours and when the hours are added together, they will be days and when the days are added together they will be one whole year, At the end of they day if a person wasted some seconds from his life on doing something he do not like or hate or he is not being productive at all and just do things just to pass the time till he sleeps such as watching tv shows that not educational nor he is having fun watching them then he is just watching tv to pass the time. Eventually he will live his whole life on short-term pleasures.

There is nothing wrong in having fun in life, In fact having fun is one of the most important things in any person’s life. Happiness of a person should never be associated with laziness. Most of the times laziness brings sadness to a person’s life in my opinion.

  • A person’s productivity is not always associated with money.
  • There is no harm done if a person does not feel the need to add something to the world or at least his life.
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The Moon and Me

I love photography and astronomy very much. I usually think deeply into meaningful things for me while I am alone ( I think most people are like this). It helps me to discover myself more.

My thoughts most of the times state when I look at the Moon and see how far it is and it’s beautiful and that same idea I customize that thought to suit the situation in my head. 

The moon photos night is usually when there is a full moon I love to go outdoors to take photos of the moon. I like everything about it, the weather, nature even if I am in the city. I like to be by myself, thoughts and the Moon. There are some negative feelings that come to me if I am always ( all the time ) with other people. ( I do NOT hate people)

Sitting alone in nature helps me or a person to think about himself, his life, his feelings, and other planets too. It lets me realize I am living in a huge world and there is other concerns or issues in the worlds that does not happen in my life but NOT in a negative way. Most of my worries and problems disappear or I can find a solution for them.

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A person’s Success and Society

A person’s success in life should not be based on other people’s opinions, if he is not causing harm for others such as if a person had not studied in the university and decided to work from an earlier age, this decision should not affect his life by thinking if he is a successful person or not. Each person’s idea of what is success is different. It depends on each person thoughts, beliefs and how she or he actually is living his life.

Knowledge is important for a person in any age. Knowledge is not exclusively could be found in schools and other places similar to them. That doesn’t mean schools are not important.Knowledge could be found in anyplace, such as  in books.

Most people think “if a person did not live his life ( generally) as known he is not successful in his life”. My opinion: I think the previous idea is unfair and not true.

A person’s success should be based on his own thoughts and happiness as long as he is not causing harm for others. Each person should be able to live his life according to his own thoughts of success, not like what the society expects him to be specially if he is not harming others.

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