With others

Most people think that if they pretend to be interested in a specific topic, it won’t appear to others they are pretending but actually, people do notice.

Similar to creating a character in a story but in real life, a person act or behave as they think how the image in his/her mind could do. I think this is the reason people do not show their true selves.  

In my opinion: When a person shows to others his true self, others will love to spend thier time with him and they will really get to know each other because they can show him their real thoughts too. It could be scary for a person to show others his true self without comparing himself with the idea he has in his mind but it is worth it.

Just discovered: To be interesting to others: you have to be interested in the topic you are talking about.

If you are not interested even if you are showing to the other person the opposite, he will notice in a way or another.

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You’r mood is your responsibilty

Sometimes when a person socialize with others their mood effects him. Each person should create is own atmosphere that he likes and feels cosy while in it, at least few hours before night sleep time. I had been doing this method for a while and it really helps me emotionally and makes me feel happier.

Each person no matter where he is or whats are his thoughts and believes, if he is surrounding himself with negative conversations then he will feel sadness or nerves. I am not  saying a person should avoid being with others all the times, but the hours a persons spends in the day are hours that are part of his life, as an example  if he wasted hours in his day he is not being productive nor having fun then he is really wasting times (years) of his life

No matter how busy a person is, he, she should always take some few hours a day to take care of himself by himself only. I usually take some time to myself during the day but I really love taking quality time for myself, few hours before I sleep. It helps me to take care of me self ( my ideas and physically ) In that time I release or let go of all the negative ideas and try to improve myself mentally.  I feel a person is mentally improving means, a person improve or at least try to improve his life style, he/she feel loved and a person is enjoying his own company.

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Use your voice

I have noticed some people do not really care to the way they speak in. They keep their voice to the same level throughout the entire speech or conversations. I think that is not a good way to speak. Each person can change his voice such as he could scream in excitement if the thing he talks about is exciting, his audience will most likely get excited with him.

Voice changing in any conversation is similar to writing when using bold, Italic, and underline. It lets the writing be more attractive to others and the lets people pay attention to the important things in the writing. I think conversations should be held similar to that way.

Most of the times if a person speaks for long times (even if a person is with friends and family) if he dose not change his voice tone, or way of speech most likely the topic that he speaks about will be boring to others to hear.

The key is for a person to know when to use which tone of his voice in a conversation.

Sadly, I notice most people do not pay attention to the previous thought while it is very Important and it could be applied to any language a person uses to speak in because it lets the topic or conversation a person is talking about more interesting. Every person or almost every person can make his voice louder or less loud then, he should know how can he use that way to to have other people’s true attention to his words.

(What I meant about; True attention: The kind of attention a person gives to others that he dose not checks his mobile or other things, certainly do not interrupts the other person.)

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How did It start?

I love writing very much. I always write down on paper everything, thoughts and feelings even before there was the idea of social media accounts. Then my father told me about Twitter then I created an account for me there. I started to put tweets there and some of them were long tweets ( they took several tweets to get to the idea I wanted to share )

Then my sister suggested that I create a blog to write in it since it does not has any typing ( characters) limit. We made 3  blogs till now ( they are not working now, except this one ) I know most people say it’s better to share your thoughts face to face but most of the times I feel writing or sharing my ideas in writing is better at least for me because it helps me to rearrange and rethink my thoughts and opinions about a specific topic and it lets me be more reasonable.

When I first started writing in a blog, my writing was not perfect nor it is near this article, I meant I was worse and I think I am getting better. Everyone can learn a new skill by observing others and applying to his own life, for me I watched YouTube videos and took people’s point of view in consideration and did my best to let my work of writing be the best it can be in the time it was published in.

I think of writing anything is kind of freedom from anything that might put pressure on me, and sometimes ( not often ) it’s kind of communication. It can be seen as an art, in my opinion, most of the times, it depends on how a writer delivers his thoughts to the readers. I am NOT writings about topics such as news or facts, I meant the articles that have the writer perspective in them.

 

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Happiness can be everywhere

Most people if not every person wants to find happiness. People most of the times think of happiness that comes from big things such as changing the country they are living in. They forget the simple, very important things in life that could bring happiness too, such as hearing water running down from a fountain or bird’s sounds and their beauty. Being with kids, I discovered, the younger the kid’s age is the happier I have become. I think I feel that feeling because I feel happiness is simple,

Happiness can be found in simple  things :

  • Running  water fountain ( small things)
  • Seeing birds or interacting with animals
  • Good weather
  • Flowers and other natural environments
  • Family being safe and happy

Big things: 

  1. Trying to reach a goal.
  2. Getting the results of the actions that you had been doing for the past months, they are the results you hoped for.
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My inspiration room experience

I always had an idea that my room is like my whole world because I spend most my day in it that is the reason I always wanted to feel motivated and actually get work done.

I watched videos on the internet about inspiring boards and their effect, I liked the idea but I changed it a little. I did not do as they said ( make an inspiring board ) On 8 October 2018 I had printed quotes from the internet, in Arabic and English languages, since I know both,  to encourage me to do different stuff and have hope, happiness. I had pasted them all over the room’s walls. They are from famous Arabic and English writers, some quotes were from kids movies and there are some quotes from television series that I love, they could be in any category you like.

Since 11 October, because I am reading the quotes regularly when I enter my room I feel hope and happiness and most of the times I have creative thoughts such as writing a new article or better ways to improve my life.

I think the messages that I get from the inspirational quotes on my room walls help me unconsciously to let my brain to think according to the messages that  I had printed and even if the world or my life had sad news, it did not really affect my deep feelings because I know whenever I go to my place I can just read the inspiring quotes on the walls.

I had put separate kind of quotes on different walls, it depends where do I stare usually and at what time of the day I sit in that place, such as under the window ( I usually open the curtains in the morning I have quotes about starting a new day. On the wall behind my desk are a paragraph about writing, goals, hard work and not giving up and beside the rom door is about focusing on new opportunities.

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The Moon and Me

I love photography and astronomy very much. I usually think deeply into meaningful things for me while I am alone ( I think most people are like this). It helps me to discover myself more.

My thoughts most of the times state when I look at the Moon and see how far it is and it’s beautiful and that same idea I customize that thought to suit the situation in my head. 

The moon photos night is usually when there is a full moon I love to go outdoors to take photos of the moon. I like everything about it, the weather, nature even if I am in the city. I like to be by myself, thoughts and the Moon. There are some negative feelings that come to me if I am always ( all the time ) with other people. ( I do NOT hate people)

Sitting alone in nature helps me or a person to think about himself, his life, his feelings, and other planets too. It lets me realize I am living in a huge world and there is other concerns or issues in the worlds that does not happen in my life but NOT in a negative way. Most of my worries and problems disappear or I can find a solution for them.

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Always wants more

There is no problem when a person wants to be better in his life in every way possible, by that way he can improve himself and his life. There should be a difference between a person wants to improve his life or he just wants to have more and not realizing the things he already has in his life are enough.

Sometimes a person does not realize the good things he already has in his life because he is already is used to them being in his everyday life, he feels like nothing in his life has real value, that’s the reason he or she always wants more of a specific thing. It is not bad for a person to want more in life of the things he already has but there are sometimes a person might become greedy.

Most of the times when a person always wants more on any topic in life such as money, he won’t be able to have fun or a peaceful life because he won’t ever be satisfied. He won’t reach his goal or he won’t have a specific goal to reach. It is good for a person to always want to improve his life in any way but he should not forget to really appreciate the things he already has, such as a good house.

Sometimes when a person always wants more and never satisfied he is like being in a race all of the time

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House work helpers and babies relationship

Some people may need help in the daily chores others do not. There is nothing wrong for a person to ask help or an assistant in anything he needs help in but he should not always depend on others to help him or do his chores, especially taking care of his kids. The parent’s kids are their responsibility, that means both of them should be the first ones who take care of the babies.

There are some people depend on maids or babysitters if their child needs anything. In some situation, a person may need some help in taking care of his kids but he or she should never totally depend on the babysitters or maids in taking care of their own children, for so many reasons. The babysitter or maids are supposed to help the parents or who are in charge of the baby for a while but should never be in charge of him or her for every single thing in his or her life because this situation may lead the baby to love or be more attached to the babysitter than his real parents.

A baby and a child should have a special, love connection between himself and his or her parents, brothers and sisters grand-mothers and grand-fathers. This kind of connection may only be available is a person is spending time with the baby or kid. Babies and young kids hardly can know the difference between family love or a person takes care of him ( physically.) Usually, he sees both of them are symbols of love. That is one of the biggest reasons parents should always be the ones who take care of their little ones. House workers, (babysitters or maids ) should only help the parents if they really needed help.

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Fight for Your FREEDOM

On 26 October 2015 a lizard ran away as fast as it can, it climbed to the highest of  its cage and jumped out of it then it crowded or ran as fast as it could with his legs towards the stairs and it climbed the first step of the stairs that lead to the rooftop of our house. When I saw him behaving in that way I realized it was going out for something really important for himself, in fact, it is important for all of us as humans too.

The important thing I had thought of was freedom. Freedom is something every creation and person needs. Most of the times a person fights for his freedom because it is a feeling it forces himself to fight for himself. It is a natural behavior.

I always talk and write about human rights but when the lizard ran away I really felt freedom is a very important thing. It should not just be a topic people talk about if they want to achieve an important position in life or if they were on on on board. It is a very important topic for any person no matter how old he is. Most of the times a person’s physical and verbal freedom are responsible for his creativity because a person’s creativity is linked with his ideas, such as if a person has a thought he wants to write a specific thing but he is not allowed to for any kind of reason, he will have as a result less creativity in his life.

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