House work helpers and babies relationship

Some people may need help in the daily chores others do not. There is nothing wrong for a person to ask help or an assistant in anything he needs help in but he should not always depends on others to help him or do his chores, specially taking care of his kids. The parent’s kids are their responsibility, that means both of them should be the first ones who takes care of the babies.

There are some people depend on maids or babysitters if their child needs anything. In some situation a person may need some help in taking care of his kids but he or she should never totally depend on the babysitters or maids in taking care of their own children, for so many reasons. The babysitter or maids are supposed to help the parents or who are in charge of the baby for a while but should never be in charge of him or her for every single thing in his or her life because this situation may lead the baby to love or be more attached with the babysitter than his real parents.

A baby and a child should have a special, love connection between himself and his or her parents, brothers and sisters grand-mothers and grand-fathers. This kind of connection may only be available is a person is spending time with the baby or kid. Babies and young kids hardly can know the difference between family love or a person takes care of him ( physically.) Usually he sees both of them are symbols of love. That is one of the biggest reasons parents should always be the ones who take care of their little ones. House workers, (babysitters or maids ) should only help the parents if they really needed help.

Occasions and having fun

There are sometimes a person goes to a specific place because most people he knows goes there, but he do not have fun in that place! A person could always search for the special thing in every place or event he goes to,that lets him feel happy.

Every person has his own interests and ideas he likes to talk and hear about them. He should always try to be with people who share his interests to have fun while he hears them and talk to them, by this way you will be looking forward to go to a family gathering. Each person should not force others to hear him or just talk about his favourite topics.

Each person has his own reasons that let him do or avoid doing specific actions or behaviours,he should never be forced to show the reasons he did a specific thing or if he went to a specific place. A person should not do any action or be in any place just because others are there, such as if a person’s family are in a specific place but he do not feel he wants to be there, he should not go because if he went while he do not want he will feel board and may let others feel nerves too.

Family gathering for specific occasion should not let a person feel he his forced to go there. When a person trains himself to always see or pay more attention to the things or people who let him be happier, he will have fun in almost every place he go to.

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Love and life

Love means a person feels he is attached to another person. Love can come in many types. There is brother’s love, sister’s love father’s love mother’s love and a person who feels attached to another person and should be together such as marriage. All types of love are important but the most important thing is being honest in any kind of relationships.

Father’s Love 

Father’s love for his children, shows by protecting them and their feelings and supports them if they did not do anything harmful for others and themselves. Support does not only mean by money for example it show by raising his children’s hopes and supports them to become better people to live their lives. Support does not always show by physical things such as money or gifts, it shows by emotional things.

Mother’s Love

Mother’s love  for her family shows by preparing for them the things they need and supports them if they do not do anything harmful to others and themselves.  Mother’s love shows by the way she treats her kids if she was not thinking about the way she will look in front of others.

Brother’s Love

Brother’s love towards his family specially sisters is  like father’s love. It shows by protecting them and their feelings. Sometimes brothers, a brother and a sister or two brothers or two sisters can be friends too.

Sister’s Love

Sister;s love is different from brother’s love . Sister’s love shows by caring about each other. Sister’s love is similar to friends love but more important relationships than friends.

Love a person

Most of the times when a person is in love with a specific person he will think about that person almost al of his time, his day and night. He  will be happy if he thought about that special  person even if he or she is not really with him or her in real life. This kind of love could be between strangers ( people who know some information about each other but they could not be a family member or  sometimes it could between relatives too.

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House Workers

In these days most people have people working at their homes, such as maids, drivers. Sadly there are some people do not treat them well in many ways, there are some people do not treat them as humans working at their house, they treat them more as slaves or machines working at their homes. Housekeepers and house workers are humans. They should always be treated with respect and have rights to live respectfully. Most of the times maids and drivers travel from their own homelands and leave their family just to search for jobs to get some money to help their family by sending them the money they get from their work.

Most of the times people who work as maids, cookers and drivers in houses had some hard life,they need others to be kind to them when they communicate with them due to living far away from their home lands. The employers and other people who live in this house should be friendly when they treat the workers. This does not mean they should joke with them all of the time but they also should not be rude to them.

There are some people give too much work to any maid they have at home because they came from their homelands to work, this is the reason they do not even give them time to rest or they treat them  as if they were not humans. This is one of the reasons house workers do not like to work or stay at home were people do not treat them well. The places or the families the workers work with should treat them as they were part of their own family and they work, there could be some rules but they should not be treated by anyone not respectfully.

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