Use your voice

I have noticed some people do not really care to the way they speak in. They keep their voice to the same level throughout the entire speech or conversations. I think that is not a good way to speak. Each person can change his voice such as he could scream in excitement if the thing he talks about is exciting, his audience will most likely get excited with him.

Voice changing in any conversation is similar to writing when using bold, Italic, and underline. It lets the writing be more attractive to others and the lets people pay attention to the important things in the writing. I think conversations should be held similar to that way.

Most of the times if a person speaks for long times (even if a person is with friends and family) if he dose not change his voice tone, or way of speech most likely the topic that he speaks about will be boring to others to hear.

The key is for a person to know when to use which tone of his voice in a conversation.

Sadly, I notice most people do not pay attention to the previous thought while it is very Important and it could be applied to any language a person uses to speak in because it lets the topic or conversation a person is talking about more interesting. Every person or almost every person can make his voice louder or less loud then, he should know how can he use that way to to have other people’s true attention to his words.

(What I meant about; True attention: The kind of attention a person gives to others that he dose not checks his mobile or other things, certainly do not interrupts the other person.)

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How did It start?

I love writing very much. I always write down on paper everything, thoughts and feelings even before there was the idea of social media accounts. Then my father told me about Twitter then I created an account for me there. I started to put tweets there and some of them were long tweets ( they took several tweets to get to the idea I wanted to share )

Then my sister suggested that I create a blog to write in it since it does not has any typing ( characters) limit. We made 3  blogs till now ( they are not working now, except this one ) I know most people say it’s better to share your thoughts face to face but most of the times I feel writing or sharing my ideas in writing is better at least for me because it helps me to rearrange and rethink my thoughts and opinions about a specific topic and it lets me be more reasonable.

When I first started writing in a blog, my writing was not perfect nor it is near this article, I meant I was worse and I think I am getting better. Everyone can learn a new skill by observing others and applying to his own life, for me I watched YouTube videos and took people’s point of view in consideration and did my best to let my work of writing be the best it can be in the time it was published in.

I think of writing anything is kind of freedom from anything that might put pressure on me, and sometimes ( not often ) it’s kind of communication. It can be seen as an art, in my opinion, most of the times, it depends on how a writer delivers his thoughts to the readers. I am NOT writings about topics such as news or facts, I meant the articles that have the writer perspective in them.

 

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My inspiration room experience

I always had an idea that my room is like my whole world because I spend most my day in it that is the reason I always wanted to feel motivated and actually get work done.

I watched videos on the internet about inspiring boards and their effect, I liked the idea but I changed it a little. I did not do as they said ( make an inspiring board ) On 8 October 2018 I had printed quotes from the internet, in Arabic and English languages, since I know both,  to encourage me to do different stuff and have hope, happiness. I had pasted them all over the room’s walls. They are from famous Arabic and English writers, some quotes were from kids movies and there are some quotes from television series that I love, they could be in any category you like.

Since 11 October, because I am reading the quotes regularly when I enter my room I feel hope and happiness and most of the times I have creative thoughts such as writing a new article or better ways to improve my life.

I think the messages that I get from the inspirational quotes on my room walls help me unconsciously to let my brain to think according to the messages that  I had printed and even if the world or my life had sad news, it did not really affect my deep feelings because I know whenever I go to my place I can just read the inspiring quotes on the walls.

I had put separate kind of quotes on different walls, it depends where do I stare usually and at what time of the day I sit in that place, such as under the window ( I usually open the curtains in the morning I have quotes about starting a new day. On the wall behind my desk are a paragraph about writing, goals, hard work and not giving up and beside the rom door is about focusing on new opportunities.

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The Moon and Me

I love photography and astronomy very much. I usually think deeply into meaningful things for me while I am alone ( I think most people are like this). It helps me to discover myself more.

My thoughts most of the times state when I look at the Moon and see how far it is and it’s beautiful and that same idea I customize that thought to suit the situation in my head. 

The moon photos night is usually when there is a full moon I love to go outdoors to take photos of the moon. I like everything about it, the weather, nature even if I am in the city. I like to be by myself, thoughts and the Moon. There are some negative feelings that come to me if I am always ( all the time ) with other people. ( I do NOT hate people)

Sitting alone in nature helps me or a person to think about himself, his life, his feelings, and other planets too. It lets me realize I am living in a huge world and there is other concerns or issues in the worlds that does not happen in my life but NOT in a negative way. Most of my worries and problems disappear or I can find a solution for them.

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House work helpers and babies relationship

Some people may need help in the daily chores others do not. There is nothing wrong for a person to ask help or an assistant in anything he needs help in but he should not always depend on others to help him or do his chores, especially taking care of his kids. The parent’s kids are their responsibility, that means both of them should be the first ones who take care of the babies.

There are some people depend on maids or babysitters if their child needs anything. In some situation, a person may need some help in taking care of his kids but he or she should never totally depend on the babysitters or maids in taking care of their own children, for so many reasons. The babysitter or maids are supposed to help the parents or who are in charge of the baby for a while but should never be in charge of him or her for every single thing in his or her life because this situation may lead the baby to love or be more attached to the babysitter than his real parents.

A baby and a child should have a special, love connection between himself and his or her parents, brothers and sisters grand-mothers and grand-fathers. This kind of connection may only be available is a person is spending time with the baby or kid. Babies and young kids hardly can know the difference between family love or a person takes care of him ( physically.) Usually, he sees both of them are symbols of love. That is one of the biggest reasons parents should always be the ones who take care of their little ones. House workers, (babysitters or maids ) should only help the parents if they really needed help.

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Be stronger than your feelings

There are sometimes a person knows the things he wants to do or similar things but he feels he cannot or unable to do them. A person should not let that feeling control his life. He should try his best to ignore it and do the things he really wants to do if he thinks he can. There are differences between a person knows ( in his thoughts) or feels he can or cannot do a specific thing.

Usually, if a person feels anything ( he can or cannot) his actions will show it. He should try his best to do the things he wants to do if he is really convinced in them. Most of the times when a person feels he cannot do a specific thing new in his life, it is because of of-of of-of his fear of failing and other people’s reactions towards him.

A person should try to be brave enough to do the things he wants because if he was not brave, he will never be the person he wants to be or reach the goal he wants. Most of the times when a person feels or thinks he cannot do the things he wants, it is because of his thoughts and being unsure about the information he has about that goal.

 

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Search for fun

Happiness is very important to a person’s life. He should always search for fun things, This does not always mean jokes about everything, it means a person knows the things or behaviors that help him be happier. In every situation a person is in, he should search for the fun things.

Some people do not know there are some differences between having fun and happiness. They are very similar to each other but different.

Happiness:

Happiness means a person feels peace in his mind and he is comfortable with his life, even if he has some problem in his life.

Having fun

Having fun in a person’s life means a person feels excited, looking forward to his coming days. He feels something excited will happen every second and he does not have any kind of worries.

A person may have fun in his life while he is not really happy in his life. Having fun means a person enjoys doing things. A person may be boaring not having fun in a while in his life but he may still feel happy about his life. There are almost fun and exciting things in anything in life, a person should really look out for them is he want to notice them.

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Baths and showers

Usually people do not like to smell anything bad that comes from another person. A person usually do not have a big issue if he smelled little bad smell from his own body. Being clean, taking baths or showers have many benefits, such as when a person knows for sure he smelled good or just had a bath and put perfume he will be more confident in himself when he communicate with others. There are some people do not know the difference between a bath and a shower, here ae will be talk about them.

Bath

A bath means a person lays down in the tub that is filled with water for a while before or after he washes his body and hair. Usually he can think of different things while he is taking a bath. Baths should let a person be relaxed and let him be clean. A person can add things in the water that help him feel more relaxed, specially if his skin is dry he can add oil balls or similar products that vanishes after a while but it’s effect will remain in the water, such as oil bombes. For the best results a person could take a bath whenever he is free because bath usually take some time. A person may think or wonder, or imagine different things in his life or things he like to have in his life. Most of the times when a person finish from bathing he will be in a happy mood.

Shower

Usually people who are in a rush, have some plans for the day take showers. Showers are perfect when a person needs to be clean but he is in a hurry. A shower means a person do not fill the tub with water, he just washes his body, hair and he leaves the tube.

In a bath or a shower a person needs to clean his body with soap and water and his hair with shampoo and water. This is the real cleaning of a person’s body.

Here are some good bath items such as oily circles, their name is: colourful_bombs. Their Instagram account is: @Colorful_bombs

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Anger and ideas

Most of the times when a person is angry and cannot control himself it means he can’t understand his own ideas or his words and actions are faster than his thinking. Usually, if a person is angry it means he is very nerves and he is not able to think reasonable ideas and behave properly.

Usually, a person cannot control himself, his behaviors and responds when he is angry, this is the reason a person should always try to prevent himself from continue communicating with others if he was angry even if they were the reason of his anger. When a person is angry he most of the times will feel like his pressure is very high, he might also feel sad. Usually, his thoughts will be very fast that he cannot really do like all of the ideas he got in his mind, this is one of the reasons a person cannot properly behave if he is angry.

When a person is angry, he will be similar to boiling eggs, he sees the things that let him feel nerves all over the place ( as the hot water ) and his vision is not clear but all he sees is the things he wants ( as the eggs in the pot.) A person should avoid himself from behaving while he is in that mood. Usually, when a person is already angry, his thoughts will let him feel angrier. This is the reason a person should try to prevent himself from thinking if he is really very angry. Whenever he is calm he should try thinking about the same topic again.

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Give to bring happiness

It is a good thing when a person gives his things, clothes, shoes and toys to people who cannot afford them. It will make more free room in his place and will let people who receive them be happy because he have something to let him feel warm. A person should always gives others the things he has but do not use anymore.

Usually whenever a person gives others ( people who cannot afford to buy them ) his unused things such as toys, he will be joyful because he know he had done a good deed. A person may buy new clothes, shoes and toys to give them to people he know they cannot afford them but when a person gives others his own things, clothes he will make more space for new things and he will let other people, families be happy in the same time. It is very good thing for a person to give others (people who cannot afford the things ) as a habit.

Some people think if they had given others their things, they will have some problems such as if a person gave others some of his clothes or money, he will have less clothes or money. This does not have to be true. Usually when people buy stuff they buy more than they need, this is why when a person discover some clothes he has he do not wear or things he has he does not use anymore, he should give it to other people who really needs them but cannot afford them.

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