Dose it represent yourself?

I recently been thinking about some people’s social media do not represent their life. I know it do not have to, but I think pretending to be someone else all the day is exhausting, the thing I recently noticed and it took me by surprise, I needed some days to reflect or think about it before I write about in this website.

I notice some people may behave in a certain way in the real life but they act the opposite on social media, on their personal accounts. I do understand that some people like to create or draw a certain personality, in front of others in real life and on social media to get certain amount and kind of respect but I think it is over used. For example there are some people are understanding in conversations and accept to listen to the other and opposite opinion on social media places but when they are confronted in real life, they behave in the opposite way. I think that behavior is really ridiculous.

Here are some questions for you to help you discover if your personal account reflect your personality or not:

  1. Are you showing the truth to others ?

  2. Dose your social media accounts show the real you, the words and photos, pictures and videos you post ?

  3. Are they just there to show others a “fake”, improved version of yourself?

  4. Do you behave in social media as you would behave in real life ?

I do see the reasons when business accounts behave in that way and I think they have too. What I am writing about here is not business accounts. I meant the personal accounts. I think since the account is for personal use, it at least should show the TRUE and positive sides of a person’s life if the owner of the account wants to, but it should be true. Such as if a person always say in videos and writes about forgiving others he, she should apply that idea in the real life, if a person did not do the thing or ideas that it is in the accounts, it most likely means that person is not real to himself and his followers!

Sometimes a person may treat each social media platform slightly different because there are some accounts are privet and others are not, that dose not always mean a person is lying to others but it is similar when a person goes out with some group of friends and then goes out with different people, most likely the topics they talked about are ( in both groups) are different.

Here is my last question:

  1. Dose your personal social media accounts really represent yourself to others, your thoughts and things you like?
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The art of communication

Conversation; At least two people are sharing some information equally.

Speech: most of the times,only person is speaking.

I love when people put feelings in theirs way of speaking, such as when a person tells others something with excitement, the audience can feel the excitement he had felt because of his voice tone, as he lets his voice be little higher, the listeners will likely be more interested and excited to hear what is the next thing he will say.

That above example is different then screaming or shouting.

I think there are special occasions a person may need to say a speech but I think for not formal occasions; people being together and a person starts a speech, it is rude and disrespectful for others especially if they were not asked.

I noticed sometimes if people are in a group then, a person say something about a topic then continuously talks non stop. I think it is not polite behavior, just to ignore anybody.

There are some situations, the talking is always from one person only, he, do not let others say their opinion because he is in a rush to talk. Most of those times I get nervous because I think that they person is not trying to keep up the conversation but turning it to a speech and not considering other people’s rights and feelings.

I personally do not like speeches except if the situation needs it because they usually serve only one thing and do not show others (the speaker’s ) real personality due to its being pre- planned. I think they are very good for graduating for example.

What about you? What are your thoughts?

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With others

Most people think that if they pretend to be interested in a specific topic, it won’t appear to others they are pretending but actually, people do notice.

Similar to creating a character in a story but in real life, a person act or behave as they think how the image in his/her mind could do. I think this is the reason people do not show their true selves.  

In my opinion: When a person shows to others his true self, others will love to spend thier time with him and they will really get to know each other because they can show him their real thoughts too. It could be scary for a person to show others his true self without comparing himself with the idea he has in his mind but it is worth it.

Just discovered: To be interesting to others: you have to be interested in the topic you are talking about.

If you are not interested even if you are showing to the other person the opposite, he will notice in a way or another.

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Use your voice

I have noticed some people do not really care to the way they speak in. They keep their voice to the same level throughout the entire speech or conversations. I think that is not a good way to speak. Each person can change his voice such as he could scream in excitement if the thing he talks about is exciting, his audience will most likely get excited with him.

Voice changing in any conversation is similar to writing when using bold, Italic, and underline. It lets the writing be more attractive to others and the lets people pay attention to the important things in the writing. I think conversations should be held similar to that way.

Most of the times if a person speaks for long times (even if a person is with friends and family) if he dose not change his voice tone, or way of speech most likely the topic that he speaks about will be boring to others to hear.

The key is for a person to know when to use which tone of his voice in a conversation.

Sadly, I notice most people do not pay attention to the previous thought while it is very Important and it could be applied to any language a person uses to speak in because it lets the topic or conversation a person is talking about more interesting. Every person or almost every person can make his voice louder or less loud then, he should know how can he use that way to to have other people’s true attention to his words.

(What I meant about; True attention: The kind of attention a person gives to others that he dose not checks his mobile or other things, certainly do not interrupts the other person.)

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كأنه مشغول

في ناس في الدنيا تحب ان توهم الاخرين بانهم مشغولين او لديهم جدول اعمال مزدحم ضنا منهم ان الاخرين ستكون فكرتهم عنهم انهم اشخاص ذوو قيمة و لكن الحقيقه غير ذلك . من الجيد ان يكون للانسان اهداف و اعمال يوميه ولا بأس ان يعتذر عن مقابلة الاخرين بسبب انشغاله كالدراسة او ممارسة الرياضة مثلا  اذا كان حقا يفعل ما يقوله .

لاحظت ان بعض الناس يستخدمون هذه الأعذار فقط لكي يتهربوا من الموعد او الجلوس مع الاخرين . ظنا منهم ان الناس ستعطيهم اهمية اكثر ولن يكتشفوا الحقيقة عنهم و لكن الحقيقة دوما تظهر مهما طال الوقت. غالبا الناس لا يحبون الاشخاص الذين لا يحترمونهم او لا يحترمون وقتهم . انشغال الانسان بحياته شيء طبيعي و مهم لكي يطور حياته ولكن استخدام المسؤليات اليومية المتكررة كآعذار فهذاغالبا له معنى اخر، للاسف و هو ان هذا الشخص لا يحب ان يكون في المكان الذي سيذهب اليه.

غالبا عندما تظهر حقيقة الشخص ، ستقل قيمته عند الاخرين و بالتالي سيقلل احترام الاخرين له و ان ابدو عكس ذلك في حضوره بمعنى الاحترام الحقيقي للانسان من قبل الاخرين، انهم يكنون له مودة واحترام ان كان غائبا أو حاضرا.

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How did It start?

I love writing very much. I always write down on paper everything, thoughts and feelings even before there was the idea of social media accounts. Then my father told me about Twitter then I created an account for me there. I started to put tweets there and some of them were long tweets ( they took several tweets to get to the idea I wanted to share )

Then my sister suggested that I create a blog to write in it since it does not has any typing ( characters) limit. We made 3  blogs till now ( they are not working now, except this one ) I know most people say it’s better to share your thoughts face to face but most of the times I feel writing or sharing my ideas in writing is better at least for me because it helps me to rearrange and rethink my thoughts and opinions about a specific topic and it lets me be more reasonable.

When I first started writing in a blog, my writing was not perfect nor it is near this article, I meant I was worse and I think I am getting better. Everyone can learn a new skill by observing others and applying to his own life, for me I watched YouTube videos and took people’s point of view in consideration and did my best to let my work of writing be the best it can be in the time it was published in.

I think of writing anything is kind of freedom from anything that might put pressure on me, and sometimes ( not often ) it’s kind of communication. It can be seen as an art, in my opinion, most of the times, it depends on how a writer delivers his thoughts to the readers. I am NOT writings about topics such as news or facts, I meant the articles that have the writer perspective in them.

 

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Smart technology and people

Did the smartphones and other technology forces people in the same place to stop talking to each other or they just use them to avoid people to communicate with them and blame the smart mobiles for their behaviors?

Most people if not all behave in that way: Uses his phone in public. 

I think people MOST of the times chose to use their phones. There are many reasons a person behaves in that way in public or in a gathering.

  • Being bored
  • There are really interesting things on the net that attract them.

Some people may see a person uses a phone in public is an impolite thing to do because it may put an invisible wall between people who are sitting together in the same place. There are some circumstances a person needs to use his phone while he is with others and it is accepted if he did but most of the times it is not accepted.

 

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الجزيره و الانترنت

 .في 18 مارس 2016 ذهبت أنا وعائلتي في رحلة بالقارب إلى جزيرة، لم نذهب إليها من قبل. انها جزيرة مسكان.
!! عندما كنا بالقرب من الجزيرة تم قطع الإنترنت !!! فكرة بماذا افعل لكي استمتع بالرحله بدون الاتصال بالانترنت

قررت أن اصور بكامرتي و كامرة هاتفي، وفي وقت لاحق سوف احملها على مواقع اتواصل الاجتماعية.

 

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كان الرمل ناعم ، شكله رطب لكن هو ناشف ، كان يوجد قواقع جميله .

تحدثنا (أنا وعائلتي) كنت قد شعرت هذا هو شيء الذي لم يكن موجود بكثره بايام السابقه! الناس للدردشة والتحدث معهم.

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الساحل في جزيره مسجان )مسكان)

حاولنا ان نصيد السمك ولكن لم نصداد اي شيئ. برغم  من ذالك كانت رحله مفيده لان كان بامكان ان نعيش يومنا مثل ايام قبل انتشار اللانترنت بشكل شاسع.

 

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وأضاف غروب الشمس الجمال للرحلة

 للانترنت فوائد كثيره كسهوله العثور علي المعلومه ولكن يجب الحذر لان ليس كل شيئ معروض علي الانترنت بالامكان الوثوق به ويجب علي اي شخص ان لا يجعل الانترنت و مواقع التواصل الاجتماعي شغله الشاغل لان هذه الطريقه قد تمنعه من العيش في حياه اجتماعيه حقيقيه.

 

 

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Occasions and having fun

There are sometimes a person goes to a specific place because most people he knows goes there, but he do not have fun in that place! A person could always search for the special thing in every place or event he goes to,that lets him feel happy.

Every person has his own interests and ideas he likes to talk and hear about them. He should always try to be with people who share his interests to have fun while he hears them and talk to them, by this way you will be looking forward to go to a family gathering. Each person should not force others to hear him or just talk about his favourite topics.

Each person has his own reasons that let him do or avoid doing specific actions or behaviours,he should never be forced to show the reasons he did a specific thing or if he went to a specific place. A person should not do any action or be in any place just because others are there, such as if a person’s family are in a specific place but he do not feel he wants to be there, he should not go because if he went while he do not want he will feel board and may let others feel nerves too.

Family gathering for specific occasion should not let a person feel he his forced to go there. When a person trains himself to always see or pay more attention to the things or people who let him be happier, he will have fun in almost every place he go to.

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Bed-time story

Most parents in the past tell or read stories for their kids just before they sleep it is usually called a bed — time story. There are some people do not think its is important for their kids but it is important. Usually when parents tell or read stories to their children they create a special relationship between themselves and their kids.

The bedtime stories are special because they are the last thing a person usually do or hear before he sleeps. This is the reason a person should hear or read happy stories. Not all people really know how to tell others a story in a good way. A person should be good at telling bed times stories to tell them.

Usually if a person do not know the way, the story he is telling or reading will be boring.
Stories may help a person to use his imagination more that he uses his vision to play. Bed time( night-sleep ) stories are really important, it is not just about the story. It is important because parents can be with their kids and share something between them.

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