Anger and ideas

Most of the times when a person is angry and cannot control himself it means he can’t understand his own ideas or his words and actions are faster than his thinking. Usually if a person is angry it means he is very nerves and he is not able to think reasonable ideas and behave properly.

Usually a person cannot control himself, his behaviours and responds when he is angry, this is the reason a person should always try to prevent himself from continue communicating with others if he was angry even if they were the reason of his anger. When a person is angry he most of the times will feel like his pressure is very high, he might also feel sad. Usually his thoughts will be very fast that he cannot really do as all of the ideas he got in his mind, this is one of the reasons a person cannot properly behave if he is angry.

When a person is angry, he will be similar to a boiling eggs, he sees the things that let him feel nerves all over the place ( as the hot water ) and his vision is not clear but all he sees is the things he wants ( as the eggs in the pot.) A person should avoid himself from behaving while he is in that mood. Usually when a person is already angry, his thoughts will let him feel more angry. This is the reason a person should try to prevent himself from thinking if he is really very angry. When ever he is calm he should try thinking in the same topic again.

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Live WITH others do not BE LIKE them

There are some people behave by certain behaviours just because most people are doing it. A person should always be himself, behaves according to his own ideas and believes. Whenever a person do any behaviour just to be like the rest of people he is with, he deletes his personality and the thing that let him be special among others.

Usually when a person decide on a decision his family, friends and people he knows do not take it, they see him as a weird person. Most of the times teenagers decide some decisions they are not really convinced in just because most people they know are doing this behaviour or took that decision but most of the times when this teenager grows, he regrets it. A persons decisions should be not based on others or his community way of living. He should take decisions he is really convinced in, not another person convinced him into them. He should also beware not to take any kind of decisions, specially life decisions just because all people he know decided in that way or behaved in that way.

A person should do the things he likes and he should not just do them to be like everyone he knows. He should always be himself in,this does not mean a person should never try to do something good for his life if everyone does it. He should not just copies people’s behaviours just to be like them, he can do the same things he sees and likes in other people’s life and behaviours if he thinks they are good for himself or suits him but he should not just copy other people behaviours, when a person behaves like this it means he does not live his life in his way, he lives his life by their way.

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Love and love to own

Some people think love and love to own something or have the power over someone are one thing or have the same meaning . This is a mistake, some people do. They have the opposite meanings. Love means: A person wants a specific person to be happy in a place at anytime and that person’s happiness is his happiness too. Love to own or control means: A person wants someone to be with him, even if by force just to let that person to do the things he wants to do and most of the times he does not treat him as a human with feelings, he treats him more as if that person was his servants but without giving them money or anything.

A person should not allow and try to prevent anyone to take advantage of him. Usually when a person just wants to have a relationship with a specific person, it is just because he is being with another person and not with him, or his attention is not with that person. Usually a person who love to own different things such as if they like a certain person they do not allow him to speak or sit with others because they think he belongs to them, similar to when a person have a toothbrush, he does not allow anyone to uses it but at least he has some real excuses for the toothbrush.

Usually a person does not like to be with anyone who always tries to control him just because he thinks he is one of his personal things. Love does not mean controlling a person’s behaviours. It means a person wants a certain person to be happy at all times and in any circumstances as long as that person does not have any problems. Love means letting a person be free to go while hoping he will stay forever.

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Give to bring happiness

It is a good thing when a person gives his things, clothes, shoes and toys to people who cannot afford them. It will make more free room in his place and will let people who receive them be happy because he have something to let him feel warm. A person should always gives others the things he has but do not use anymore.

Usually whenever a person gives others ( people who cannot afford to buy them ) his unused things such as toys, he will be joyful because he know he had done a good deed. A person may buy new clothes, shoes and toys to give them to people he know they cannot afford them but when a person gives others his own things, clothes he will make more space for new things and he will let other people, families be happy in the same time. It is very good thing for a person to give others (people who cannot afford the things ) as a habit.

Some people think if they had given others their things, they will have some problems such as if a person gave others some of his clothes or money, he will have less clothes or money. This does not have to be true. Usually when people buy stuff they buy more than they need, this is why when a person discover some clothes he has he do not wear or things he has he does not use anymore, he should give it to other people who really needs them but cannot afford them.

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The real meaning

Did you ever thought what does ( I love you ) phrase really means? These words are very special when they are spoken or written, especially if they were from a special person because they let the receiver feel happy. It lets a person be in a good mood because it tells him, he is accepted as he is by a specific person.

When a person say “I love you” to a specific person, it really means he accepts the other person as she or he is, without trying to change him and he always feels he wants her or him to be beside him all of the time. It also means a person accepts the other person as he is and he feels that person is his other half, it also means a person’s heart and thoughts are with the other person. (This only happens between men and women.) A person does not need to say “I love you” phrase to let the other person know, he could tell he loves that specific person by his behaviours. Usually behaviours are stronger than words.

Love is a beautiful feeling but since it is a feeling, it means people cannot look directly at it. Some people may use it as an excuse to do anything they want, even if the things they want to do harm others. This is the reason many people, women and men doubt when a person ( if from the other type) said it to them.

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Act as your words

In some cultures, men should to stick firmly to their words, but women do not have to. Usually people respects a person who says something and do not change his words later. A person’s behaviours should prove his words,phrase. Men and women should behave in that way.This does not mean a person never changes his thoughts and behaves as a rock, a person should behave to similar to a tree. ( For the tree and rock, you can read ways of living article)

Most of the times when a person do as he said he would do, people will start to treat him as a grown up person. A person whose behaviours and words proves the same thing is a real mature, strong person. Most on the times when a person’s behaviours are the opposite of his words, others will not really depend on him in anything he says.

Usually a person needs to have a strong personality and should be really convinced in the subject or ideas he is talking about to do the things he said he will do. Most of the times grownups are respected because they do not frequently change their words meanings. A person should always think many times about the words he planing to say because once they have been said, a person who said them should prove for others he really mean them.

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Unstable thoughts

There are sometimes a person feels his mood and his ideas are not stable in his mind or he receives to many information from others. Sometimes a person feels he is lost in his ideas. Usually a person feels that feeling few times in his life.

Most of the times when a person feels he is lost or do not have anything that really take his attention in his life, it means he needs to have some private time to rearrange his ideas, believes. Usually a person’s behaviours are the results of his ideas. When a person’s thoughts are not really clear to himself he should prevent himself from behaving.

Each person may have some while of unstable ideas. When a person do not understand his life he may begin to over think and decide on a specific thing but after few minutes he changes his mind. Usually when a person have to many or opposite thoughts, he likes to think about them to know which idea and information is right and which one is wrong.

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The way a person uses his words

Some people do not pay attention to their way of talking and the words they use. They often wonder when other people get upset with them. A person should never forget other people have emotions and feelings too. Usually a person way of talking and behaving  have the power to control the listener’s way of responding.

Words can be powerful. They may have the power to destroys a person’s life or improves it.  They may be the reason of new, good beginnings in a person’s life. Usually a person way of talking and behaving  have the power to control the listener way of responding.

A person may give a word many meanings, it depends on the way he uses. A person may say a specific word in a criticising way, then most of the times he really means the opposite meaning of it. Each person should choose wisely the words and the way he wants or needs to use them in because his words could hurt other people’s feelings.

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       الاسف و الندم

هناك في بعض الأحيان شخص لا يفعل شيء معين فيحياته وانه يأسف عليه فيقول : يا ليت عامل هذه  الطريقة. التحسف لا ينفع اي انسان . في مسلسل سعدون قال الاب لابنه يفتح النور او الليت . الولد حاول ولكن لم يستطيع فتح النور فقال : ما اطول.  قال الاب : حاول قال الولد : ما اطول،، يا ليت اقدر يا ليت . قال الاب: يا وليدي يا سعدون يا ليت عمرها ما بطلت ليت … تبي تسوي شي قوم سوه .. بعدها حاول الولد طرق مختلفة و نجح .

الاسف: عندما يفكر الانسان بماضيه و يشعر بالحسرة

الندم:عندما يشعر الانسان بالفعل الذي ارتكبه

ينبغي للإنسان أن دائما يحاول طرق مختلفة للوصول إلى أهدافه أو الأشياء التي كان يريدها لكن يجب عليه أن لا يوؤذي مشاعر الآخرين. ينبغي للإنسان أن يفعل الأشياء التي كان يريدها دون تأخير وينبغي أن يقتنص الفرص الأفضل للحصول على الأشياء التي يريدها.

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Speaking about others

There are some people like to talk about others or a specific person in front of others if he is not with them. Most of the times those people hate it, if they knew others were talking about them and they were not present in that time. Usually a person get angry if he knew a person was telling others his mistakes and bad points in his personality.

A person should not talk about others in any bad or unhappy way if he do not like others to talk about him because whenever a person talked about a certain person, that person might know and he might get angry. Each person should treat others in the way he likes them to treat him by. Usually when a person who starts to speak about another person’s bad points, he is actually showing others his own bad points in his personality without knowing.

Most of the times, no one can learn valuable lessons from conversation about other people’s private lives and their way of responses for others. Most of the times people who talk about others in that way have one of two reasons, the first is: they are jealous from that person.The second is they feel they are upset with anger feelings towards that person because he did a certain thing

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