Use your voice

I have noticed some people do not really care to the way they speak in. They keep their voice to the same level throughout the entire speech or conversations. I think that is not a good way to speak. Each person can change his voice such as he could scream in excitement if the thing he talks about is exciting, his audience will most likely get excited with him.

Voice changing in any conversation is similar to writing when using bold, Italic, and underline. It lets the writing be more attractive to others and the lets people pay attention to the important things in the writing. I think conversations should be held similar to that way.

Most of the times if a person speaks for long times (even if a person is with friends and family) if he dose not change his voice tone, or way of speech most likely the topic that he speaks about will be boring to others to hear.

The key is for a person to know when to use which tone of his voice in a conversation.

Sadly, I notice most people do not pay attention to the previous thought while it is very Important and it could be applied to any language a person uses to speak in because it lets the topic or conversation a person is talking about more interesting. Every person or almost every person can make his voice louder or less loud then, he should know how can he use that way to to have other people’s true attention to his words.

(What I meant about; True attention: The kind of attention a person gives to others that he dose not checks his mobile or other things, certainly do not interrupts the other person.)

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كأنه مشغول

في ناس في الدنيا تحب ان توهم الاخرين بانهم مشغولين او لديهم جدول اعمال مزدحم ضنا منهم ان الاخرين ستكون فكرتهم عنهم انهم اشخاص ذوو قيمة و لكن الحقيقه غير ذلك . من الجيد ان يكون للانسان اهداف و اعمال يوميه ولا بأس ان يعتذر عن مقابلة الاخرين بسبب انشغاله كالدراسة او ممارسة الرياضة مثلا  اذا كان حقا يفعل ما يقوله .

لاحظت ان بعض الناس يستخدمون هذه الأعذار فقط لكي يتهربوا من الموعد او الجلوس مع الاخرين . ظنا منهم ان الناس ستعطيهم اهمية اكثر ولن يكتشفوا الحقيقة عنهم و لكن الحقيقة دوما تظهر مهما طال الوقت. غالبا الناس لا يحبون الاشخاص الذين لا يحترمونهم او لا يحترمون وقتهم . انشغال الانسان بحياته شيء طبيعي و مهم لكي يطور حياته ولكن استخدام المسؤليات اليومية المتكررة كآعذار فهذاغالبا له معنى اخر، للاسف و هو ان هذا الشخص لا يحب ان يكون في المكان الذي سيذهب اليه.

غالبا عندما تظهر حقيقة الشخص ، ستقل قيمته عند الاخرين و بالتالي سيقلل احترام الاخرين له و ان ابدو عكس ذلك في حضوره بمعنى الاحترام الحقيقي للانسان من قبل الاخرين، انهم يكنون له مودة واحترام ان كان غائبا أو حاضرا.

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Happiness can be everywhere

Most people if not every person wants to find happiness. People most of the times think of happiness that comes from big things such as changing the country they are living in. They forget the simple, very important things in life that could bring happiness too, such as hearing water running down from a fountain or bird’s sounds and their beauty. Being with kids, I discovered, the younger the kid’s age is the happier I have become. I think I feel that feeling because I feel happiness is simple,

Happiness can be found in simple  things :

  • Running  water fountain ( small things)
  • Seeing birds or interacting with animals
  • Good weather
  • Flowers and other natural environments
  • Family being safe and happy

Big things: 

  1. Trying to reach a goal.
  2. Getting the results of the actions that you had been doing for the past months, they are the results you hoped for.
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Plans for your life

It is always great to see your plan A, becoming a reality but sometimes in life, the person’s first plan do not really work or he does not get the results he wants in his life. This is the reason a person should always have a plan B or a back up plan, ready to use or he can work on it at anytime. There are sometimes I think the more options or plans a person has for his life is the better, not just two plans such as (First plan, second plan, third plan ) he should figure out plans as many as he can if the first plan he has do not work out.

Off course plans do not work in a person’s life until he acts towards them. A person should not get board from starting all over again because there could be a missed opportunity he had missed that he could get the things or results he wants.

Most of the times if not all of the times, a plan helps a person to reach his life goals when he really stick to his plan. I imagine my plans as my helpers to do or have the results that I want.

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The night of discoveries

I was about to watch a television series that I love than the reality became very visible to my eyes  and I just sat on the ground for few minutes (I want to watch the series to pass the time till I get sleepy then I realised I am always doing things just to pass the time and not being productive, not trying to change my life or the things I really hate about it and that fact really scared me, because I always talk with others and I think that I do almost all of the things that I need to do or want to do but in reality I did not behave toward my dreams or at least one of my goals.

From the next day I changed, I started to work at least about fifteen minutes a day  on one post or work that in my opinion it has good effect on other people. I think a person should always has the power to change his life even if there are certain things that happened in the past and they effected his present and future. In the past I used to always ask myself (who are you?) I took that idea from my favorite t.v series that I loved when I was a teenager and I still do, it has real life lessons that could be applied to ours in  these days. Recently I forgot about that thought. It is really  helpful to know your thoughts and rethink them after a while to see if they are still correct or do they still make sense for yourself.

The days are made from seconds, the seconds are added together to become minutes, when the minutes are added together they will be hours and when the hours are added together, they will be days and when the days are added together they will be one whole year, At the end of they day if a person wasted some seconds from his life on doing something he do not like or hate or he is not being productive at all and just do things just to pass the time till he sleeps such as watching tv shows that not educational nor he is having fun watching them then he is just watching tv to pass the time. Eventually he will live his whole life on short-term pleasures.

There is nothing wrong in having fun in life, In fact having fun is one of the most important things in any person’s life. Happiness of a person should never be associated with laziness. Most of the times laziness brings sadness to a person’s life in my opinion.

  • A person’s productivity is not always associated with money.
  • There is no harm done if a person does not feel the need to add something to the world or at least his life.
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An environment for successful life

Most of the times when new technology device is in shops, people buy it, just because it is new, not because they need it such as how most people listen to music. Each person should make  an environment that best suites him, even if most people see it as wrong or old ways to do certain tasks if it helps him get creative.

A person should learn new things in his life in any topic but he still should live his life ( privet and social ) in the way he like as long as he is NOT harming others and their feelings intentionally. Creating or finding the best environment for a person to keep being productive is not always easy but it is worth the time for  a person to find a suitable way to help him be more motivated in life and productive.

The main differences between a child and a grownup are responsibility and productivity. It does not always have to do or connected to profit. Being productive mainly means for me is to try to add good things in the world or change the bad things in life or at least in my circle of family, friends and any person I can make his life better or at least one day better in his life.

I always thought I was not addictive to my phone till recently because I took a while not writing on this website and other productive things I used to do. When I saw some videos on the internet about being productive, they helped me a lot from the first day I used them.

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Smart technology and people

Did the smartphones and other technology forces people in the same place to stop talking to each other or they just use them to avoid people to communicate with them and blame the smart mobiles for their behaviors?

Most people if not all behave in that way: Uses his phone in public. 

I think people MOST of the times chose to use their phones. There are many reasons a person behaves in that way in public or in a gathering.

  • Being bored
  • There are really interesting things on the net that attract them.

Some people may see a person uses a phone in public is an impolite thing to do because it may put an invisible wall between people who are sitting together in the same place. There are some circumstances a person needs to use his phone while he is with others and it is accepted if he did but most of the times it is not accepted.

 

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A person’s Success and Society

A person’s success in life should not be based on other people’s opinions, if he is not causing harm for others such as if a person had not studied in the university and decided to work from an earlier age, this decision should not affect his life by thinking if he is a successful person or not. Each person’s idea of what is success is different. It depends on each person thoughts, beliefs and how she or he actually is living his life.

Knowledge is important for a person in any age. Knowledge is not exclusively could be found in schools and other places similar to them. That doesn’t mean schools are not important.Knowledge could be found in anyplace, such as  in books.

Most people think “if a person did not live his life ( generally) as known he is not successful in his life”. My opinion: I think the previous idea is unfair and not true.

A person’s success should be based on his own thoughts and happiness as long as he is not causing harm for others. Each person should be able to live his life according to his own thoughts of success, not like what the society expects him to be specially if he is not harming others.

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Take care of Earth 

Till now no one discovered life ( as we are living on Earth) on other planets. People should really try not to damage Earth and take care of it. Earth is our home, houses should be protected from any damage, such as polluted air, polluted water, and other important things.

Air is very important for all creations. People need fresh air to breathe, animals and plants need fresh air to grow. Usually, fresh or clean air is in places where fewer factories and other stuff that releases gas into the air. Most of the times when a person takes care of anything, it becomes better, The animals and air need our help. People need to always try to make Earth a better place to live in, to have more pure air.

 

The whole environment needs to be clean for a person to live a good life. A person is similar to a plant, if his environment is unhealthy, most likely he won’t be in good health.

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Fight for Your FREEDOM

On 26 October 2015 a lizard ran away as fast as it can, it climbed to the highest of  its cage and jumped out of it then it crowded or ran as fast as it could with his legs towards the stairs and it climbed the first step of the stairs that lead to the rooftop of our house. When I saw him behaving in that way I realized it was going out for something really important for himself, in fact, it is important for all of us as humans too.

The important thing I had thought of was freedom. Freedom is something every creation and person needs. Most of the times a person fights for his freedom because it is a feeling it forces himself to fight for himself. It is a natural behavior.

I always talk and write about human rights but when the lizard ran away I really felt freedom is a very important thing. It should not just be a topic people talk about if they want to achieve an important position in life or if they were on on on board. It is a very important topic for any person no matter how old he is. Most of the times a person’s physical and verbal freedom are responsible for his creativity because a person’s creativity is linked with his ideas, such as if a person has a thought he wants to write a specific thing but he is not allowed to for any kind of reason, he will have as a result less creativity in his life.

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