Be YOU

Most people like to fit in with others. I think this kind of behavior demolishes the uniqueness a person has and that is sad. I think whenever a person try to copy others in any way, he is wasting his time, I think most likely he does not know the impact he has.

 

There are certain things I noticed some people are behaving in, I have other ideas about them.

  • Complaining; I do not like it because most of the times it dose not  help solve the issue.  Complaining should only used if a person really wants/ needs to hear other useful opinions about a specific subject, not just to attract attention because it comes across as petty.
  • Be you, do not go after a goal just because most people did. Most of the times it is tough for a person to show others his real self but this dose not mean he/she do not be herself in front of others. I mean if a person is interested in something most people are not interested in, he should not feel ashamed or shy about it and he should never try to hide his true self just because he thinks in a different way than most people he knows 

Think of these ideas:

Why be simller to everyone else?

Work on yourself, improve yourself, in your own timeline not according to others

 

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The art of communication

Conversation; At least two people are sharing some information equally.

Speech: most of the times,only person is speaking.

I love when people put feelings in theirs way of speaking, such as when a person tells others something with excitement, the audience can feel the excitement he had felt because of his voice tone, as he lets his voice be little higher, the listeners will likely be more interested and excited to hear what is the next thing he will say.

That above example is different then screaming or shouting.

I think there are special occasions a person may need to say a speech but I think for not formal occasions; people being together and a person starts a speech, it is rude and disrespectful for others especially if they were not asked.

I noticed sometimes if people are in a group then, a person say something about a topic then continuously talks non stop. I think it is not polite behavior, just to ignore anybody.

There are some situations, the talking is always from one person only, he, do not let others say their opinion because he is in a rush to talk. Most of those times I get nervous because I think that they person is not trying to keep up the conversation but turning it to a speech and not considering other people’s rights and feelings.

I personally do not like speeches except if the situation needs it because they usually serve only one thing and do not show others (the speaker’s ) real personality due to its being pre- planned. I think they are very good for graduating for example.

What about you? What are your thoughts?

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With others

Most people think that if they pretend to be interested in a specific topic, it won’t appear to others they are pretending but actually, people do notice.

Similar to creating a character in a story but in real life, a person act or behave as they think how the image in his/her mind could do. I think this is the reason people do not show their true selves.  

In my opinion: When a person shows to others his true self, others will love to spend thier time with him and they will really get to know each other because they can show him their real thoughts too. It could be scary for a person to show others his true self without comparing himself with the idea he has in his mind but it is worth it.

Just discovered: To be interesting to others: you have to be interested in the topic you are talking about.

If you are not interested even if you are showing to the other person the opposite, he will notice in a way or another.

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Organizing from watching others

Watching organizing the place videos on YouTube, made me make my place more organized. I watch a lot of them and there are three channels that changed me.

I always had an idea: my place represents my feelings and thoughts.

My ideas and the way of thinking shows in the room or in the place that I live in, such as if a person has organized thoughts and he truly understands himself then the place he lives in, most likely will be organized. I recently discovered the opposite of this idea is true!

I took some of the tips that were helpful to me and applied them to my place. I always had some not organized place to for the small stuff that I have,need but then things changed:

I had organized my place, inside the cabinets and the things that on display.

Organizing my place inspired me to let my thoughts be organized too!

Now it’s like that

Now it’s like that

The make up was hardly organized, there were half of them in that box and the others are scattered all over the place, but then I bought the make up holder, about a year before I had saw the videos, I was not really using it, my makeup were in different parts in my room, then after I saw the videos I used it more.

Now it’s like that

I discovered: when the place is well organized and clean it will effect the person’s mood and productivity!!

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Being confident in reaching you GOAL

Self-confidence is the most important type. It what allows a person to go towards his goal or goals in life. Usually, when a person is confident to reach his goals, it means he trust his knowledge and his judgment on that topic. Being confident gives a person a push to go towards the goals of his life.

One thing that I recently discovered that a person should be fully insistence and sometimes stubborn in reaching his goals or he will have hard times in reaching his goals and he will almost be wasting many years of his life without trying to reach his goals even if they were clear and simple for him.

Having confidence in yourself is a great thing because it shows to others that you are really ready to do the thing that you want to do, such as, if a person wants to study even if he is older than his classmates in many years and he still shows up there, he goes to the lessons then he will learn new topics but if he did not have confidence in his self then anything that could happen in the class will affect him such as if he answered a question in a wrong way, he might get disappointed by himself and he might think others are criticizing him, but in reality when he has a strong personality it means he will be confident most of the times and he will go after the certificate he wants or his goal with OUT letting anything interfere with his decision or stops him from reaching his goals.

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Plans for your life

It is always great to see your plan A, becoming a reality but sometimes in life, the person’s first plan do not really work or he does not get the results he wants in his life. This is the reason a person should always have a plan B or a back up plan, ready to use or he can work on it at anytime. There are sometimes I think the more options or plans a person has for his life is the better, not just two plans such as (First plan, second plan, third plan ) he should figure out plans as many as he can if the first plan he has do not work out.

Off course plans do not work in a person’s life until he acts towards them. A person should not get board from starting all over again because there could be a missed opportunity he had missed that he could get the things or results he wants.

Most of the times if not all of the times, a plan helps a person to reach his life goals when he really stick to his plan. I imagine my plans as my helpers to do or have the results that I want.

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The night of discoveries

I was about to watch a television series that I love than the reality became very visible to my eyes  and I just sat on the ground for few minutes (I want to watch the series to pass the time till I get sleepy then I realised I am always doing things just to pass the time and not being productive, not trying to change my life or the things I really hate about it and that fact really scared me, because I always talk with others and I think that I do almost all of the things that I need to do or want to do but in reality I did not behave toward my dreams or at least one of my goals.

From the next day I changed, I started to work at least about fifteen minutes a day  on one post or work that in my opinion it has good effect on other people. I think a person should always has the power to change his life even if there are certain things that happened in the past and they effected his present and future. In the past I used to always ask myself (who are you?) I took that idea from my favorite t.v series that I loved when I was a teenager and I still do, it has real life lessons that could be applied to ours in  these days. Recently I forgot about that thought. It is really  helpful to know your thoughts and rethink them after a while to see if they are still correct or do they still make sense for yourself.

The days are made from seconds, the seconds are added together to become minutes, when the minutes are added together they will be hours and when the hours are added together, they will be days and when the days are added together they will be one whole year, At the end of they day if a person wasted some seconds from his life on doing something he do not like or hate or he is not being productive at all and just do things just to pass the time till he sleeps such as watching tv shows that not educational nor he is having fun watching them then he is just watching tv to pass the time. Eventually he will live his whole life on short-term pleasures.

There is nothing wrong in having fun in life, In fact having fun is one of the most important things in any person’s life. Happiness of a person should never be associated with laziness. Most of the times laziness brings sadness to a person’s life in my opinion.

  • A person’s productivity is not always associated with money.
  • There is no harm done if a person does not feel the need to add something to the world or at least his life.
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الحياة و البحر

اود ان اتكلم معكم عن الحياة في الفقرات التاليه عن البحر. كل الاحتمالات موجوده في البحر اذا الانسان كان في رحله بحريه خصوصا في القرون الماضيه، كان الذي يذهب الى البحر يغيب و تغيب اخباره عن اهله لمدة اشهر.

البحر = الحياة

القارب او السفينه =الإنسان ونفسيته

 القارب يرتفع فوق و يهبط على سطح الماء و يشق طريقة بين موجات البحر ليصل الى هدفة مثل تقلبات الحياة و الانسان يجب آن كون مثل قبطان السفينه اذا كان يريد يكون مصير حياته في يده .

الانسان يجب عليه ان يتحلى بشخصية قويه و خطه ليتمكن من ان يشق طريق ليصل لمراده. البحر عميق جدا و مليء بالغموض مثل الانسان. كل او اغلب الناس لديها جانب لا يكشفون الغطاء عنه لكل البشر مثل البحر يتوجب على الانسان ان يغوص الى قاع البحر ليتمكن من اكتشافه على حقيقته و من الممكن ان يرى اشياء تعجبه و تهدشه او اشياء لا تعجبه تماما او تزعجه.

البحر غالبا يكون فيه حطام سفن كانت قد غرقت في وقت ماضي مثل جروح الانسان النفسيه و الجسديه .المفروض  الجروح لا توقف تقدم الانسان عكس السفن لان ممكن ان يتاخذ قرارا يغير حياته في اي لحظة عكس السفن التي غرقت بالبحر للابد ممكن لانسان ان يتاقلم مع وضعه في الحياة اذا شيئ ما لم يعجبه في حياته و لكن ليس بيده حيله حيال ذالك .

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For better life

Everyone needs something or some event that motivates him to move more in his life to be fit, thin. There are some people needs motivations to be healthy in their lives.

For a few weeks I had been using a fitness tracker and I would like to share my experience with you:

I used a tracker you can plug it on your clothes.  It was good for a while but then I had lost it. Now I am using an arm tracker ( like a watch) It really helped me to move more, be more active like the one I used it before.

I have been using it lately to track my excise and food because I am trying to be more healthy and it really helps me by keeping track of my food and movements. I like the application that comes with it too. It also lets me compete with other people.

I do not like to charge anything because I forget, the tracker needs to be charged every three days or more, NOT daily so that thing is very good for me. It also let me be more observed of my body but sometimes not in a good way but other than these things, it is a very good thing.

Here is a Fitbit link: 

 https://www.fitbit.com/home

Exercising brings happiness not just because of the results. While a person exercise he lets the time passes by and he is doing something healthy for his body he also release the anger that is inside of him/her through his/ her exercise, rather than other people.

 

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A person’s Success and Society

A person’s success in life should not be based on other people’s opinions, if he is not causing harm for others such as if a person had not studied in the university and decided to work from an earlier age, this decision should not affect his life by thinking if he is a successful person or not. Each person’s idea of what is success is different. It depends on each person thoughts, beliefs and how she or he actually is living his life.

Knowledge is important for a person in any age. Knowledge is not exclusively could be found in schools and other places similar to them. That doesn’t mean schools are not important.Knowledge could be found in anyplace, such as  in books.

Most people think “if a person did not live his life ( generally) as known he is not successful in his life”. My opinion: I think the previous idea is unfair and not true.

A person’s success should be based on his own thoughts and happiness as long as he is not causing harm for others. Each person should be able to live his life according to his own thoughts of success, not like what the society expects him to be specially if he is not harming others.

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