Accept others in your life

Accepting others in your life means really respecting their ideas when you do not agree with them. When a person put rules and expectations from others, he is really making it hard for himself to have friends and he is limiting himself from exploring new ideas in life just because he had put a label on others according to his brief information of them. I think this way will limit his experience in life.

 A person should accept other people’s opinion when they do not have the same opinion as him. Accepting others in a person’s life means accepting the fact, they have the right to show their opinions, ideas and beliefs in front of you even if they are not agreeing with you they should not feel threatened.

Usually, when a person accepts a certain person in his life, such as a friend it should mean he accept his flaws too, even though that does not mean a person does not try to improve himself but I mean he should not always point out his friend’s flaws all of the time. Ironically once a person admits his flaws to himself, he usually tries to improve them.

 

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سعادتك في نظرتك للحياة

الحياة مليئه بالاشياء و الاحداث السيئه و السعيدة في ان واحد. اذا الإنسان يريد ان يسعد و يستمتع في حياته يجب عليه دائما التطلع الى الاشياء الجماليه ، الافكار ذات الهدف النبيل او الافعال التي تغير حياته للافضل لان التحسر على ما فات لا يفيد اي انسان .في رأيي لدى الانسان مكبره يستعملها كلما فكر او تكلم مع اي احد لانه عندما الانسان يفكر او يتكلم عن اي موضوع، هو يركز عليه فلماذا الانسان يركز على السلبيات في حياته دون محاولة اصلاحها فعليا؟ يجب على الانسان ان يحاول تكرارا و مرارا ان يحل مشاكل حياته او المشاكل التي تسيطر على حياته . المشاكل تحل بالتصرفات لا بالكلام فقط.

في بعض الأحيان ننشغل في استخدام هواتفنا المحمولة لدرجة ان ننسى أن نعيش او ان نشعر ان هناك أشياء جميلة في الحياة . هذه الاشياء الجميلة ممكن ان تكون بسيطة مثل هذا البيضة التي تنير بالوان مختلفة 

 

ليس بالضرورة ان تكون درجة الاستمتاع و الفرح لدى الانسان مرتبطة بكمية المال التي يمتلكها ولا عدد الناس الذين يعرفهم. .

غالبا السعادة تكون موجودة في كل مكان ، فقط يجب على الانسان ان يضع المكبرة الخاصة به على الأشياء او المواضيع الفرحة .

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Focus on yourself

A person should focus on himself, not others and how fast they had reached their goals. Each person should have his own speed. In my opinion, a person should always try to improve himself in all aspects of his life.

I think if a person is trying to improve himself, he will not be curious about other people’s life, gossip or anything that does not adds good, ideas in his life. From few days I felt I am a sort of a bad person. I spend most of my day doing short term happiness things such as playing games on my mobile even when I need to do other things such as exercising.

A few days ago I thought of an idea that really helped me, in my opinion.

The thought is:

If I will do anything that will take time in my day ( hours) I ask my self two questions: Will it improve my life in any way? Am I enjoying it? 

If the answer is yes to the first question that I continue doing it even if I am not enjoying doing that task but I will most likely like the results.

If the answer is no to the second question and I won’t benefit from that thing I am doing, in the future then I stop doing it and go do another thing that will benefit me in my future. I found those two questions helped me to be more productive and healthier too.

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Add your personality, make a difference

It is a beautiful and satisfying feeling to have when you added something good to the world. It can be anything that is not harmful to others such as it can be writing a good, helpful article, book or an art-related such as taking photos or drawing and displaying them to others. By creating something you are changing a specific thing or an idea such as if you wrote a book about how people can solve their problems, there will be one more helpful book that can help people to solve their problems and improve their ways of living. A person cannot always know how effective his words on others or how many people could had read or saw his, her work and was inspired by it or how it could have been a reason a person smiled that day!

Inspiration may come from lots of things, I think it just needs a person to be ready. Every person can add something made by him/ her into the world. I think a person should not wait until the inspiration arrives. I think a person should go out physically, not just sitting in one closed place almost all week

A writer should never stop sharing his/ her ideas even if they were discouraged by other people’s opinion because you will never know who read your book, article and improved their lives. I think that is one of the reasons I love writing, it could be writing a blog post, just brainstorming ideas or a book. Sharing something with a large group of people such as bookselling means you are sharing your ideas, a part of your personality with other people that you do not know.

 I would like to read your comments, What do you do to add something beautiful, to the world? As you can see I use writing and photography as a tool. What about you?

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Being confident in reaching you GOAL

Self-confidence is the most important type. It what allows a person to go towards his goal or goals in life. Usually, when a person is confident to reach his goals, it means he trust his knowledge and his judgment on that topic. Being confident gives a person a push to go towards the goals of his life.

One thing that I recently discovered that a person should be fully insistence and sometimes stubborn in reaching his goals or he will have hard times in reaching his goals and he will almost be wasting many years of his life without trying to reach his goals even if they were clear and simple for him.

Having confidence in yourself is a great thing because it shows to others that you are really ready to do the thing that you want to do, such as, if a person wants to study even if he is older than his classmates in many years and he still shows up there, he goes to the lessons then he will learn new topics but if he did not have confidence in his self then anything that could happen in the class will affect him such as if he answered a question in a wrong way, he might get disappointed by himself and he might think others are criticizing him, but in reality when he has a strong personality it means he will be confident most of the times and he will go after the certificate he wants or his goal with OUT letting anything interfere with his decision or stops him from reaching his goals.

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Happiness can be everywhere

Most people if not every person wants to find happiness. People most of the times think of happiness that comes from big things such as changing the country they are living in. They forget the simple, very important things in life that could bring happiness too, such as hearing water running down from a fountain or bird’s sounds and their beauty. Being with kids, I discovered, the younger the kid’s age is the happier I have become. I think I feel that feeling because I feel happiness is simple,

Happiness can be found in simple  things :

  • Running  water fountain ( small things)
  • Seeing birds or interacting with animals
  • Good weather
  • Flowers and other natural environments
  • Family being safe and happy

Big things: 

  1. Trying to reach a goal.
  2. Getting the results of the actions that you had been doing for the past months, they are the results you hoped for.
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الناس ليس مرئاتك

الطريقة التي تعتقد ان الناس يجب ان بتعاملوا بها في موقف معين هي الطريقه او التصرف الذي انت ستتصرف به بما يخص هذا  الوضع او المشكلة ، و ليس بالضروري ان تكون فكرتك في كيفية طريقة الاخرين في التصرف هي نفس طريقتك. غالبا عندما تعتقد ان الاخرين سيتعاملوا مع حدث معين باسلوب معين هذا يعني ( انت ) كانسان تفترض ان الاخرين لديهم نفس افكارك و نفس اسلوبك بالتعامل مع الحياة و المشاكل المختلفه لكن في الحقيقه هذه الفكرة ليس صحيحة.

الناس و طريقة تعاملهم بشتي ظروف الحياة ، ليس مرئاتك هم لا يفكرون ولا يتصرفون بنفس طريقتك انت فكل شخص عنده اسلوبه المختلف في التعامل. الطريقة أو الإسلوب الذي تعتقد انه مناسب لك ليحل مشاكلك أو ليوصلك لهدفك ليس بالضرورة انه سيناسب الأخرين .

كل شخص لديه تجارب مختلفه في الحياة عن الاخرين بغض النظر عن ما نوع  الصلة بينهم، فيجب ان لا تفترض يآيها القارئ  العزيز ان الأخرين سيكون ردود افعالهم نفس الذي تصدر منك.

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My inspiration room experience

I always had an idea that my room is like my whole world because I spend most my day in it that is the reason I always wanted to feel motivated and actually get work done.

I watched videos on the internet about inspiring boards and their effect, I liked the idea but I changed it a little. I did not do as they said ( make an inspiring board ) On 8 October 2018 I had printed quotes from the internet, in Arabic and English languages, since I know both,  to encourage me to do different stuff and have hope, happiness. I had pasted them all over the room’s walls. They are from famous Arabic and English writers, some quotes were from kids movies and there are some quotes from television series that I love, they could be in any category you like.

Since 11 October, because I am reading the quotes regularly when I enter my room I feel hope and happiness and most of the times I have creative thoughts such as writing a new article or better ways to improve my life.

I think the messages that I get from the inspirational quotes on my room walls help me unconsciously to let my brain to think according to the messages that  I had printed and even if the world or my life had sad news, it did not really affect my deep feelings because I know whenever I go to my place I can just read the inspiring quotes on the walls.

I had put separate kind of quotes on different walls, it depends where do I stare usually and at what time of the day I sit in that place, such as under the window ( I usually open the curtains in the morning I have quotes about starting a new day. On the wall behind my desk are a paragraph about writing, goals, hard work and not giving up and beside the rom door is about focusing on new opportunities.

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Beauty saloon and life as a girl

  1. What defines beauty?
  2. Do you think we as people should live according to society beauty standards?
  3. Who puts them?

From a young age, I liked going to saloons to take care of my appearances such as hair and nails. There are sometimes I go there just to feel happy afterward. Most of the times I think that I feel those feelings because all the advertisements that show a girl look happier after she went to a hair salon.

I am NOT against going to hair salons or lady’s hair saloons, in fact, I love going there, but sometimes  I wonder if our actions are really based on our personality one hundred percent or is there other things such as advertisements that might change our thoughts? Such as where is the harm of letting a women’s grey hair grow and not coloring it in the saloon once a month or something like that or at home,  I get it, how a woman likes to look pretty all the times  even if she is covering her hair with a hijab but sometimes I think it might get expensive for a woman to go regularly to saloons and I think going regularly to saloons l might let that girl to not accept her natural appearance.

I like you to read your opinions on this topic.

  • Do the advertisements control our behaviors?
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مشاكل الحياة و الحل

في بعض الاحيان المشاكل التي تحصل في حياة الانسان تكون معقدة او صعب حلها تماما كبكرة خيوط مشتربكه مع بعض ، غالبا الحل يكون في سحب طرف الخيط الصحيح و لكن ممكن ان يكون الوضع في الوهلة الاولى، ان الوضع صعب.

مع اصرار و استمرار الانسان في السعي لحل المشكله و هي سحب الخيط ، غالبا سيتوصل للحل الصحيح. في رأيي هذه الطريقة تنطبق على حل اغلب مشاكل الحياة اذا كنا قادرين ان نفكر بهدوء و عقلانية فسوف نتوصل لحل مشاكل حياتنا ، انا و انتم، مهما كانت معقدة.

مشاكل حياة الانسان غالبا تحتاج الى اهتمام و عدم التسرع في الحل لكي تتجنب صنع مشكلة او عقدة جديدة في الخيط و الحياة.

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