Focus on yourself

A person should focus on himself, not others and how fast they had reached their goals. Each person should have his own speed. In my opinion, a person should always try to improve himself in all aspects of his life.

I think if a person is trying to improve himself, he will not be curious about other people’s life, gossip or anything that does not adds good, ideas in his life. From few days I felt I am a sort of a bad person. I spend most of my day doing short term happiness things such as playing games on my mobile even when I need to do other things such as exercising.

A few days ago I thought of an idea that really helped me, in my opinion.

The thought is:

If I will do anything that will take time in my day ( hours) I ask my self two questions: Will it improve my life in any way? Am I enjoying it? 

If the answer is yes to the first question that I continue doing it even if I am not enjoying doing that task but I will most likely like the results.

If the answer is no to the second question and I won’t benefit from that thing I am doing, in the future then I stop doing it and go do another thing that will benefit me in my future. I found those two questions helped me to be more productive and healthier too.

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Add your personality, make a difference

It is a beautiful and satisfying feeling to have when you added something good to the world. It can be anything that is not harmful to others such as it can be writing a good, helpful article, book or an art-related such as taking photos or drawing and displaying them to others. By creating something you are changing a specific thing or an idea such as if you wrote a book about how people can solve their problems, there will be one more helpful book that can help people to solve their problems and improve their ways of living. A person cannot always know how effective his words on others or how many people could had read or saw his, her work and was inspired by it or how it could have been a reason a person smiled that day!

Inspiration may come from lots of things, I think it just needs a person to be ready. Every person can add something made by him/ her into the world. I think a person should not wait until the inspiration arrives. I think a person should go out physically, not just sitting in one closed place almost all week

A writer should never stop sharing his/ her ideas even if they were discouraged by other people’s opinion because you will never know who read your book, article and improved their lives. I think that is one of the reasons I love writing, it could be writing a blog post, just brainstorming ideas or a book. Sharing something with a large group of people such as bookselling means you are sharing your ideas, a part of your personality with other people that you do not know.

 I would like to read your comments, What do you do to add something beautiful, to the world? As you can see I use writing and photography as a tool. What about you?

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Being confident in reaching you GOAL

Self-confidence is the most important type. It what allows a person to go towards his goal or goals in life. Usually, when a person is confident to reach his goals, it means he trust his knowledge and his judgment on that topic. Being confident gives a person a push to go towards the goals of his life.

One thing that I recently discovered that a person should be fully insistence and sometimes stubborn in reaching his goals or he will have hard times in reaching his goals and he will almost be wasting many years of his life without trying to reach his goals even if they were clear and simple for him.

Having confidence in yourself is a great thing because it shows to others that you are really ready to do the thing that you want to do, such as, if a person wants to study even if he is older than his classmates in many years and he still shows up there, he goes to the lessons then he will learn new topics but if he did not have confidence in his self then anything that could happen in the class will affect him such as if he answered a question in a wrong way, he might get disappointed by himself and he might think others are criticizing him, but in reality when he has a strong personality it means he will be confident most of the times and he will go after the certificate he wants or his goal with OUT letting anything interfere with his decision or stops him from reaching his goals.

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Happiness can be everywhere

Most people if not every person wants to find happiness. People most of the times think of happiness that comes from big things such as changing the country they are living in. They forget the simple, very important things in life that could bring happiness too, such as hearing water running down from a fountain or bird’s sounds and their beauty. Being with kids, I discovered, the younger the kid’s age is the happier I have become. I think I feel that feeling because I feel happiness is simple,

Happiness can be found in simple  things :

  • Running  water fountain ( small things)
  • Seeing birds or interacting with animals
  • Good weather
  • Flowers and other natural environments
  • Family being safe and happy

Big things: 

  1. Trying to reach a goal.
  2. Getting the results of the actions that you had been doing for the past months, they are the results you hoped for.
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الناس ليس مرئاتك

الطريقة التي تعتقد ان الناس يجب ان بتعاملوا بها في موقف معين هي الطريقه او التصرف الذي انت ستتصرف به بما يخص هذا  الوضع او المشكلة ، و ليس بالضروري ان تكون فكرتك في كيفية طريقة الاخرين في التصرف هي نفس طريقتك. غالبا عندما تعتقد ان الاخرين سيتعاملوا مع حدث معين باسلوب معين هذا يعني ( انت ) كانسان تفترض ان الاخرين لديهم نفس افكارك و نفس اسلوبك بالتعامل مع الحياة و المشاكل المختلفه لكن في الحقيقه هذه الفكرة ليس صحيحة.

الناس و طريقة تعاملهم بشتي ظروف الحياة ، ليس مرئاتك هم لا يفكرون ولا يتصرفون بنفس طريقتك انت فكل شخص عنده اسلوبه المختلف في التعامل. الطريقة أو الإسلوب الذي تعتقد انه مناسب لك ليحل مشاكلك أو ليوصلك لهدفك ليس بالضرورة انه سيناسب الأخرين .

كل شخص لديه تجارب مختلفه في الحياة عن الاخرين بغض النظر عن ما نوع  الصلة بينهم، فيجب ان لا تفترض يآيها القارئ  العزيز ان الأخرين سيكون ردود افعالهم نفس الذي تصدر منك.

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My inspiration room experience

I always had an idea that my room is like my whole world because I spend most my day in it that is the reason I always wanted to feel motivated and actually get work done.

I watched videos on the internet about inspiring boards and their effect, I liked the idea but I changed it a little. I did not do as they said ( make an inspiring board ) On 8 October 2018 I had printed quotes from the internet, in Arabic and English languages, since I know both,  to encourage me to do different stuff and have hope, happiness. I had pasted them all over the room’s walls. They are from famous Arabic and English writers, some quotes were from kids movies and there are some quotes from television series that I love, they could be in any category you like.

Since 11 October, because I am reading the quotes regularly when I enter my room I feel hope and happiness and most of the times I have creative thoughts such as writing a new article or better ways to improve my life.

I think the messages that I get from the inspirational quotes on my room walls help me unconsciously to let my brain to think according to the messages that  I had printed and even if the world or my life had sad news, it did not really affect my deep feelings because I know whenever I go to my place I can just read the inspiring quotes on the walls.

I had put separate kind of quotes on different walls, it depends where do I stare usually and at what time of the day I sit in that place, such as under the window ( I usually open the curtains in the morning I have quotes about starting a new day. On the wall behind my desk are a paragraph about writing, goals, hard work and not giving up and beside the rom door is about focusing on new opportunities.

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Beauty saloon and life as a girl

  1. What defines beauty?
  2. Do you think we as people should live according to society beauty standards?
  3. Who puts them?

From a young age, I liked going to saloons to take care of my appearances such as hair and nails. There are sometimes I go there just to feel happy afterward. Most of the times I think that I feel those feelings because all the advertisements that show a girl look happier after she went to a hair salon.

I am NOT against going to hair salons or lady’s hair saloons, in fact, I love going there, but sometimes  I wonder if our actions are really based on our personality one hundred percent or is there other things such as advertisements that might change our thoughts? Such as where is the harm of letting a women’s grey hair grow and not coloring it in the saloon once a month or something like that or at home,  I get it, how a woman likes to look pretty all the times  even if she is covering her hair with a hijab but sometimes I think it might get expensive for a woman to go regularly to saloons and I think going regularly to saloons l might let that girl to not accept her natural appearance.

I like you to read your opinions on this topic.

  • Do the advertisements control our behaviors?
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مشاكل الحياة و الحل

في بعض الاحيان المشاكل التي تحصل في حياة الانسان تكون معقدة او صعب حلها تماما كبكرة خيوط مشتربكه مع بعض ، غالبا الحل يكون في سحب طرف الخيط الصحيح و لكن ممكن ان يكون الوضع في الوهلة الاولى، ان الوضع صعب.

مع اصرار و استمرار الانسان في السعي لحل المشكله و هي سحب الخيط ، غالبا سيتوصل للحل الصحيح. في رأيي هذه الطريقة تنطبق على حل اغلب مشاكل الحياة اذا كنا قادرين ان نفكر بهدوء و عقلانية فسوف نتوصل لحل مشاكل حياتنا ، انا و انتم، مهما كانت معقدة.

مشاكل حياة الانسان غالبا تحتاج الى اهتمام و عدم التسرع في الحل لكي تتجنب صنع مشكلة او عقدة جديدة في الخيط و الحياة.

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My experience with both phones

From years I hear some groups of people talk about how wonderful it is to have either an iPhone and an an Android phone. I had a blackberry since it was an aaa new thing then I switched to android phones for years. I had three or four Android phones throw out the years. Whenever a person says to me to buy a new phone (another brand) I just refuse, because it (Android phone ) had many details I am used to and some I love till now.

Recently my phone’s screen was broken a little and its charger stops working after few months, so my phone service provider got lucky because usually, I do not free on any promotion because I do not want to change my phone, in the promotion was an iPhone include with it. Usually, whenever my provider tells me about any premonition, I do not take it but this time I really listened to him and I agreed, there was sometimes I changed my mind because of of-of of-of the fact I am used to an Android system for a long time. Now after about a month, I notice the differences between an iPhone 8 and galaxy.

Here I will share with you the differences between the two systems that I noticed while using them: 

Android

Has shortcuts are from everywhere such as screenshots can be taken from side folder or from pressing real buttons. ( that one I love because sometimes I do not press the right bottom to take a screenshot)

I can change the color of a folder, easier to find things without reading the folder’s name.

iPhone

Screenshots can only be taken by pressing actual buttons, multiple buttons at the same time. I have an iPad and I like how they both can get notified in the same time such as calls, if I am using my iPad and I got a call on my phone, there will be a message on the iPad to tell me about the call. The apps can be downloadable in both devices, most of the times, that’s the reason there is not a lot of new things I have to get used to.

I like to read your thoughts on those smartphones and other smartphones, as you can see I used an iPhone just months ago, that is the reason I do not have a lot of experience using it.

 

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Plans for your life

It is always great to see your plan A, becoming a reality but sometimes in life, the person’s first plan do not really work or he does not get the results he wants in his life. This is the reason a person should always have a plan B or a back up plan, ready to use or he can work on it at anytime. There are sometimes I think the more options or plans a person has for his life is the better, not just two plans such as (First plan, second plan, third plan ) he should figure out plans as many as he can if the first plan he has do not work out.

Off course plans do not work in a person’s life until he acts towards them. A person should not get board from starting all over again because there could be a missed opportunity he had missed that he could get the things or results he wants.

Most of the times if not all of the times, a plan helps a person to reach his life goals when he really stick to his plan. I imagine my plans as my helpers to do or have the results that I want.

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