You’r mood is your responsibilty
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Sometimes when a person socialize with others their mood effects him. Each person should create is own atmosphere that he likes and feels cosy while in it, at least few hours before night sleep time. I had been doing this method for a while and it really helps me emotionally and makes me feel happier.

Each person no matter where he is or whats are his thoughts and believes, if he is surrounding himself with negative conversations then he will feel sadness or nerves. I am not  saying a person should avoid being with others all the times, but the hours a persons spends in the day are hours that are part of his life, as an example  if he wasted hours in his day he is not being productive nor having fun then he is really wasting times (years) of his life

No matter how busy a person is, he, she should always take some few hours a day to take care of himself by himself only. I usually take some time to myself during the day but I really love taking quality time for myself, few hours before I sleep. It helps me to take care of me self ( my ideas and physically ) In that time I release or let go of all the negative ideas and try to improve myself mentally.  I feel a person is mentally improving means, a person improve or at least try to improve his life style, he/she feel loved and a person is enjoying his own company.

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How did It start?
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I love writing very much. I always write down on paper everything, thoughts and feelings even before there was the idea of social media accounts. Then my father told me about Twitter then I created an account for me there. I started to put tweets there and some of them were long tweets ( they took several tweets to get to the idea I wanted to share )

Then my sister suggested that I create a blog to write in it since it does not has any typing ( characters) limit. We made 3  blogs till now ( they are not working now, except this one ) I know most people say it’s better to share your thoughts face to face but most of the times I feel writing or sharing my ideas in writing is better at least for me because it helps me to rearrange and rethink my thoughts and opinions about a specific topic and it lets me be more reasonable.

When I first started writing in a blog, my writing was not perfect nor it is near this article, I meant I was worse and I think I am getting better. Everyone can learn a new skill by observing others and applying to his own life, for me I watched YouTube videos and took people’s point of view in consideration and did my best to let my work of writing be the best it can be in the time it was published in.

I think of writing anything is kind of freedom from anything that might put pressure on me, and sometimes ( not often ) it’s kind of communication. It can be seen as an art, in my opinion, most of the times, it depends on how a writer delivers his thoughts to the readers. I am NOT writings about topics such as news or facts, I meant the articles that have the writer perspective in them.

 

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My inspiration room experience
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I always had an idea that my room is like my whole world because I spend most my day in it that is the reason I always wanted to feel motivated and actually get work done.

I watched videos on the internet about inspiring boards and their effect, I liked the idea but I changed it a little. I did not do as they said ( make an inspiring board ) On 8 October 2018 I had printed quotes from the internet, in Arabic and English languages, since I know both,  to encourage me to do different stuff and have hope, happiness. I had pasted them all over the room’s walls. They are from famous Arabic and English writers, some quotes were from kids movies and there are some quotes from television series that I love, they could be in any category you like.

Since 11 October, because I am reading the quotes regularly when I enter my room I feel hope and happiness and most of the times I have creative thoughts such as writing a new article or better ways to improve my life.

I think the messages that I get from the inspirational quotes on my room walls help me unconsciously to let my brain to think according to the messages that  I had printed and even if the world or my life had sad news, it did not really affect my deep feelings because I know whenever I go to my place I can just read the inspiring quotes on the walls.

I had put separate kind of quotes on different walls, it depends where do I stare usually and at what time of the day I sit in that place, such as under the window ( I usually open the curtains in the morning I have quotes about starting a new day. On the wall behind my desk are a paragraph about writing, goals, hard work and not giving up and beside the rom door is about focusing on new opportunities.

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Beauty saloon and life as a girl
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  1. What defines beauty?
  2. Do you think we as people should live according to society beauty standards?
  3. Who puts them?

From a young age, I liked going to saloons to take care of my appearances such as hair and nails. There are sometimes I go there just to feel happy afterward. Most of the times I think that I feel those feelings because all the advertisements that show a girl look happier after she went to a hair salon.

I am NOT against going to hair salons or lady’s hair saloons, in fact, I love going there, but sometimes  I wonder if our actions are really based on our personality one hundred percent or is there other things such as advertisements that might change our thoughts? Such as where is the harm of letting a women’s grey hair grow and not coloring it in the saloon once a month or something like that or at home,  I get it, how a woman likes to look pretty all the times  even if she is covering her hair with a hijab but sometimes I think it might get expensive for a woman to go regularly to saloons and I think going regularly to saloons l might let that girl to not accept her natural appearance.

I like you to read your opinions on this topic.

  • Do the advertisements control our behaviors?
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Life, the way I see it
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I feel there are some unwritten rules about how we as people have to live our lives,  for example a person has to go to school from early age till he finish university even if he feels he cannot, then he is expected to have a job. If a person did not get the chance to live his own life in that way ( a way most people live their lives by) then others may  think there should be something wrong with him or his life, that idea may let the others think they have the right to decide how he lives his own life and it may let him feel he is living in jail.

I truly think it is unfair! 

I think each person should be able to live his life in the way he thinks its suitable for himself if it is not controlling or harming other people’s lives. Life should be an adventure with some planing involve. Each person should feel he is free to do anything he wants  n life, such as if  he wants to study, work, be a writer or anything else, he should decide for himself, not other people.

I think each person is free when he was born, there is no reason to put him in exceptions since he was born till the day he dies. Freedom should be in every part of a person’s life in order to be truly free.  My thought is whenever a person does or decide he do a certain behaviour muse to please other people, that means he is not free. A person’s success in his life should only be decided based on his own ideas and feelings by himself.

 

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The night of discoveries
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I was about to watch a television series that I love than the reality became very visible to my eyes  and I just sat on the ground for few minutes (I want to watch the series to pass the time till I get sleepy then I realised I am always doing things just to pass the time and not being productive, not trying to change my life or the things I really hate about it and that fact really scared me, because I always talk with others and I think that I do almost all of the things that I need to do or want to do but in reality I did not behave toward my dreams or at least one of my goals.

From the next day I changed, I started to work at least about fifteen minutes a day  on one post or work that in my opinion it has good effect on other people. I think a person should always has the power to change his life even if there are certain things that happened in the past and they effected his present and future. In the past I used to always ask myself (who are you?) I took that idea from my favorite t.v series that I loved when I was a teenager and I still do, it has real life lessons that could be applied to ours in  these days. Recently I forgot about that thought. It is really  helpful to know your thoughts and rethink them after a while to see if they are still correct or do they still make sense for yourself.

The days are made from seconds, the seconds are added together to become minutes, when the minutes are added together they will be hours and when the hours are added together, they will be days and when the days are added together they will be one whole year, At the end of they day if a person wasted some seconds from his life on doing something he do not like or hate or he is not being productive at all and just do things just to pass the time till he sleeps such as watching tv shows that not educational nor he is having fun watching them then he is just watching tv to pass the time. Eventually he will live his whole life on short-term pleasures.

There is nothing wrong in having fun in life, In fact having fun is one of the most important things in any person’s life. Happiness of a person should never be associated with laziness. Most of the times laziness brings sadness to a person’s life in my opinion.

  • A person’s productivity is not always associated with money.
  • There is no harm done if a person does not feel the need to add something to the world or at least his life.
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The Moon and Me
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I love photography and astronomy very much. I usually think deeply into meaningful things for me while I am alone ( I think most people are like this). It helps me to discover myself more.

My thoughts most of the times state when I look at the Moon and see how far it is and it’s beautiful and that same idea I customize that thought to suit the situation in my head. 

The moon photos night is usually when there is a full moon I love to go outdoors to take photos of the moon. I like everything about it, the weather, nature even if I am in the city. I like to be by myself, thoughts and the Moon. There are some negative feelings that come to me if I am always ( all the time ) with other people. ( I do NOT hate people)

Sitting alone in nature helps me or a person to think about himself, his life, his feelings, and other planets too. It lets me realize I am living in a huge world and there is other concerns or issues in the worlds that does not happen in my life but NOT in a negative way. Most of my worries and problems disappear or I can find a solution for them.

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