A person’s privacy and secrets

I had noticed recently there are some people who do not know the difference between a secret and a person’s privacy. I do see their way of thinking, the difference is not a lot.

A person’s privacy From the dictionary: The state or condition of being free from being observed or disturbed by other people: My opinion: A person’s privacy means a person should be allowed to have his ( me ) time. It could be personal and he/ she may share it with others.

(Me time) means, from the dictionary: time spent relaxing on one’s own as opposed to working or doing things for others, seen as an opportunity to reduce stress or restore energy. .A Secret means from the dictionary: something that is kept or meant to be kept unknown or unseen by others. My opinion: A secret means a person has something or information that no person in the entire world could know about it even if they try.

There is a different meaning to it and sadly, it is most commonly used: secrets means information that is about the privacy of other people.

I love privacy, that does not have secrets. I mean a person is free to do anything he wants without the feelings of there are other people around him, it lets a person be his true self. Respecting other people’s privacy such as leaving that personal stuff just for him may help people to respect that person even more.

 

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كأنه مشغول

في ناس في الدنيا تحب ان توهم الاخرين بانهم مشغولين او لديهم جدول اعمال مزدحم ضنا منهم ان الاخرين ستكون فكرتهم عنهم انهم اشخاص ذوو قيمة و لكن الحقيقه غير ذلك . من الجيد ان يكون للانسان اهداف و اعمال يوميه ولا بأس ان يعتذر عن مقابلة الاخرين بسبب انشغاله كالدراسة او ممارسة الرياضة مثلا  اذا كان حقا يفعل ما يقوله .

لاحظت ان بعض الناس يستخدمون هذه الأعذار فقط لكي يتهربوا من الموعد او الجلوس مع الاخرين . ظنا منهم ان الناس ستعطيهم اهمية اكثر ولن يكتشفوا الحقيقة عنهم و لكن الحقيقة دوما تظهر مهما طال الوقت. غالبا الناس لا يحبون الاشخاص الذين لا يحترمونهم او لا يحترمون وقتهم . انشغال الانسان بحياته شيء طبيعي و مهم لكي يطور حياته ولكن استخدام المسؤليات اليومية المتكررة كآعذار فهذاغالبا له معنى اخر، للاسف و هو ان هذا الشخص لا يحب ان يكون في المكان الذي سيذهب اليه.

غالبا عندما تظهر حقيقة الشخص ، ستقل قيمته عند الاخرين و بالتالي سيقلل احترام الاخرين له و ان ابدو عكس ذلك في حضوره بمعنى الاحترام الحقيقي للانسان من قبل الاخرين، انهم يكنون له مودة واحترام ان كان غائبا أو حاضرا.

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Accept others in your life

Accepting others in your life means really respecting their ideas when you do not agree with them. When a person put rules and expectations from others, he is really making it hard for himself to have friends and he is limiting himself from exploring new ideas in life just because he had put a label on others according to his brief information of them. I think this way will limit his experience in life.

 A person should accept other people’s opinion when they do not have the same opinion as him. Accepting others in a person’s life means accepting the fact, they have the right to show their opinions, ideas and beliefs in front of you even if they are not agreeing with you they should not feel threatened.

Usually, when a person accepts a certain person in his life, such as a friend it should mean he accept his flaws too, even though that does not mean a person does not try to improve himself but I mean he should not always point out his friend’s flaws all of the time. Ironically once a person admits his flaws to himself, he usually tries to improve them.

 

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سعادتك في نظرتك للحياة

الحياة مليئه بالاشياء و الاحداث السيئه و السعيدة في ان واحد. اذا الإنسان يريد ان يسعد و يستمتع في حياته يجب عليه دائما التطلع الى الاشياء الجماليه ، الافكار ذات الهدف النبيل او الافعال التي تغير حياته للافضل لان التحسر على ما فات لا يفيد اي انسان .في رأيي لدى الانسان مكبره يستعملها كلما فكر او تكلم مع اي احد لانه عندما الانسان يفكر او يتكلم عن اي موضوع، هو يركز عليه فلماذا الانسان يركز على السلبيات في حياته دون محاولة اصلاحها فعليا؟ يجب على الانسان ان يحاول تكرارا و مرارا ان يحل مشاكل حياته او المشاكل التي تسيطر على حياته . المشاكل تحل بالتصرفات لا بالكلام فقط.

في بعض الأحيان ننشغل في استخدام هواتفنا المحمولة لدرجة ان ننسى أن نعيش او ان نشعر ان هناك أشياء جميلة في الحياة . هذه الاشياء الجميلة ممكن ان تكون بسيطة مثل هذا البيضة التي تنير بالوان مختلفة 

 

ليس بالضرورة ان تكون درجة الاستمتاع و الفرح لدى الانسان مرتبطة بكمية المال التي يمتلكها ولا عدد الناس الذين يعرفهم. .

غالبا السعادة تكون موجودة في كل مكان ، فقط يجب على الانسان ان يضع المكبرة الخاصة به على الأشياء او المواضيع الفرحة .

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Being confident in reaching you GOAL

Self-confidence is the most important type. It what allows a person to go towards his goal or goals in life. Usually, when a person is confident to reach his goals, it means he trust his knowledge and his judgment on that topic. Being confident gives a person a push to go towards the goals of his life.

One thing that I recently discovered that a person should be fully insistence and sometimes stubborn in reaching his goals or he will have hard times in reaching his goals and he will almost be wasting many years of his life without trying to reach his goals even if they were clear and simple for him.

Having confidence in yourself is a great thing because it shows to others that you are really ready to do the thing that you want to do, such as, if a person wants to study even if he is older than his classmates in many years and he still shows up there, he goes to the lessons then he will learn new topics but if he did not have confidence in his self then anything that could happen in the class will affect him such as if he answered a question in a wrong way, he might get disappointed by himself and he might think others are criticizing him, but in reality when he has a strong personality it means he will be confident most of the times and he will go after the certificate he wants or his goal with OUT letting anything interfere with his decision or stops him from reaching his goals.

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Happiness can be everywhere

Most people if not every person wants to find happiness. People most of the times think of happiness that comes from big things such as changing the country they are living in. They forget the simple, very important things in life that could bring happiness too, such as hearing water running down from a fountain or bird’s sounds and their beauty. Being with kids, I discovered, the younger the kid’s age is the happier I have become. I think I feel that feeling because I feel happiness is simple,

Happiness can be found in simple  things :

  • Running  water fountain ( small things)
  • Seeing birds or interacting with animals
  • Good weather
  • Flowers and other natural environments
  • Family being safe and happy

Big things: 

  1. Trying to reach a goal.
  2. Getting the results of the actions that you had been doing for the past months, they are the results you hoped for.

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الناس ليس مرئاتك

الطريقة التي تعتقد ان الناس يجب ان بتعاملوا بها في موقف معين هي الطريقه او التصرف الذي انت ستتصرف به بما يخص هذا  الوضع او المشكلة ، و ليس بالضروري ان تكون فكرتك في كيفية طريقة الاخرين في التصرف هي نفس طريقتك. غالبا عندما تعتقد ان الاخرين سيتعاملوا مع حدث معين باسلوب معين هذا يعني ( انت ) كانسان تفترض ان الاخرين لديهم نفس افكارك و نفس اسلوبك بالتعامل مع الحياة و المشاكل المختلفه لكن في الحقيقه هذه الفكرة ليس صحيحة.

الناس و طريقة تعاملهم بشتي ظروف الحياة ، ليس مرئاتك هم لا يفكرون ولا يتصرفون بنفس طريقتك انت فكل شخص عنده اسلوبه المختلف في التعامل. الطريقة أو الإسلوب الذي تعتقد انه مناسب لك ليحل مشاكلك أو ليوصلك لهدفك ليس بالضرورة انه سيناسب الأخرين .

كل شخص لديه تجارب مختلفه في الحياة عن الاخرين بغض النظر عن ما نوع  الصلة بينهم، فيجب ان لا تفترض يآيها القارئ  العزيز ان الأخرين سيكون ردود افعالهم نفس الذي تصدر منك.

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Beauty saloon and life as a girl

  1. What defines beauty?
  2. Do you think we as people should live according to society beauty standards?
  3. Who puts them?

From a young age, I liked going to saloons to take care of my appearances such as hair and nails. There are sometimes I go there just to feel happy afterward. Most of the times I think that I feel those feelings because all the advertisements that show a girl look happier after she went to a hair salon.

I am NOT against going to hair salons or lady’s hair saloons, in fact, I love going there, but sometimes  I wonder if our actions are really based on our personality one hundred percent or is there other things such as advertisements that might change our thoughts? Such as where is the harm of letting a women’s grey hair grow and not coloring it in the saloon once a month or something like that or at home,  I get it, how a woman likes to look pretty all the times  even if she is covering her hair with a hijab but sometimes I think it might get expensive for a woman to go regularly to saloons and I think going regularly to saloons l might let that girl to not accept her natural appearance.

I like you to read your opinions on this topic.

  • Do the advertisements control our behaviors?

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مشاكل الحياة و الحل

في بعض الاحيان المشاكل التي تحصل في حياة الانسان تكون معقدة او صعب حلها تماما كبكرة خيوط مشتربكه مع بعض ، غالبا الحل يكون في سحب طرف الخيط الصحيح و لكن ممكن ان يكون الوضع في الوهلة الاولى، ان الوضع صعب.

مع اصرار و استمرار الانسان في السعي لحل المشكله و هي سحب الخيط ، غالبا سيتوصل للحل الصحيح. في رأيي هذه الطريقة تنطبق على حل اغلب مشاكل الحياة اذا كنا قادرين ان نفكر بهدوء و عقلانية فسوف نتوصل لحل مشاكل حياتنا ، انا و انتم، مهما كانت معقدة.

مشاكل حياة الانسان غالبا تحتاج الى اهتمام و عدم التسرع في الحل لكي تتجنب صنع مشكلة او عقدة جديدة في الخيط و الحياة.

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My experience with both phones

From years I hear some groups of people talk about how wonderful it is to have either an iPhone and an an Android phone. I had a blackberry since it was an aaa new thing then I switched to android phones for years. I had three or four Android phones throw out the years. Whenever a person says to me to buy a new phone (another brand) I just refuse, because it (Android phone ) had many details I am used to and some I love till now.

Recently my phone’s screen was broken a little and its charger stops working after few months, so my phone service provider got lucky because usually, I do not free on any promotion because I do not want to change my phone, in the promotion was an iPhone include with it. Usually, whenever my provider tells me about any premonition, I do not take it but this time I really listened to him and I agreed, there was sometimes I changed my mind because of of-of of-of the fact I am used to an Android system for a long time. Now after about a month, I notice the differences between an iPhone 8 and galaxy.

Here I will share with you the differences between the two systems that I noticed while using them: 

Android

Has shortcuts are from everywhere such as screenshots can be taken from side folder or from pressing real buttons. ( that one I love because sometimes I do not press the right bottom to take a screenshot)

I can change the color of a folder, easier to find things without reading the folder’s name.

iPhone

Screenshots can only be taken by pressing actual buttons, multiple buttons at the same time. I have an iPad and I like how they both can get notified in the same time such as calls, if I am using my iPad and I got a call on my phone, there will be a message on the iPad to tell me about the call. The apps can be downloadable in both devices, most of the times, that’s the reason there is not a lot of new things I have to get used to.

I like to read your thoughts on those smartphones and other smartphones, as you can see I used an iPhone just months ago, that is the reason I do not have a lot of experience using it.

 

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