Be you to be creative

I was forcing myself to write today, but I could not have a good idea in my opinion to write about but then I realized the good ( the one that get a lot of likes and reactions ) articles and post in my other social media are not planned,  I just write the comment, what I feel or think that is suitable in that moment.

I realized that act should be applied here. There are sometimes ( in the past years} I force myself to write daily in my blogs but for that reason the ideas or post I had wrote in those times weren’t successful or got attention because the ideas behind them weren’t good enough for me that is why I could not work on them, to post good quality articles. I love writing since I was a kid but there are sometimes I run out of ideas or sometimes I have a {writer block} that when I can’t write down any good quality  articles.

There are some writers that are able to write, publish good quality things daily and I think it is very good for them, but I realized when I force myself in writing I would not write something worth reading. I think writing is some kind of art  snd creativity and as most people know creativity is not something a person could force, its about expressing your true self.

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تضيع الوقت

الوقت شيئ ثمين و يجب ان يكون مهم جدا لكل انسان لأن اذا الثانية الواحدة ضاعت من عمر الانسان فانه لا يستطيع استرجاعها . حياة الانسان مجموع من السنين و الايام و الساعات و الدقائق و الثواني التي يعيشها الانسان، فيجب عليه ان لا يضيع وقته، ايامه لا يفعل شيئ ذات قيمة بالنسبة له.

عندما يتفكر الانسان في فكرة ( دقائق يومه هي التي تبني حياته ) بعدها لن يستطيع ان يسمح لنفسه ان يضيع وقته في اي موضوع لا يساعده ان يصل لهدفه.  غالبا عندما الانسان يتذمر بان يومه ممل و لديه وقت طويل لا يعمل شيء فيه، فانه غالبا يكون في الحقيقة لا يسعى لتحقيق اهدافه. عندما يكون الانسان في طريقه لتحقيق هدفه فهو غالبا لن يشعر بالضجر.

 (عند تضيع الوقت لو بضع ثواني ، في الحقيقة انت تضيع حياتك)

عندما اتذكر هذة الفكرة السابقه ، في الغالب اتوقف حالا عن تضيع وقتي . لكل انسان امنيات واهداف يريد ان يصل لها لكن لا يستطيع الوصول لها دون العمل او السعي لها.  الانسان يجب عليه معرفة كيفية ادارة يومه و مسؤلياته لكي يتمكن من تحقيقها دون الشعور بالتعب في بداية ان نصف الطريق و ثم الفتور من محاولة تحقيق الهدف

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Organizing from watching others

Watching organizing the place videos on YouTube, made me make my place more organized. I watch a lot of them and there are three channels that changed me.

I always had an idea: my place represents my feelings and thoughts.

My ideas and the way of thinking shows in the room or in the place that I live in, such as if a person has organized thoughts and he truly understands himself then the place he lives in, most likely will be organized. I recently discovered the opposite of this idea is true!

I took some of the tips that were helpful to me and applied them to my place. I always had some not organized place to for the small stuff that I have,need but then things changed:

I had organized my place, inside the cabinets and the things that on display.

Organizing my place inspired me to let my thoughts be organized too!

Now it’s like that

Now it’s like that

The make up was hardly organized, there were half of them in that box and the others are scattered all over the place, but then I bought the make up holder, about a year before I had saw the videos, I was not really using it, my makeup were in different parts in my room, then after I saw the videos I used it more.

Now it’s like that

I discovered: when the place is well organized and clean it will effect the person’s mood and productivity!!

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You’r mood is your responsibilty

Sometimes when a person socialize with others their mood effects him. Each person should create is own atmosphere that he likes and feels cosy while in it, at least few hours before night sleep time. I had been doing this method for a while and it really helps me emotionally and makes me feel happier.

Each person no matter where he is or whats are his thoughts and believes, if he is surrounding himself with negative conversations then he will feel sadness or nerves. I am not  saying a person should avoid being with others all the times, but the hours a persons spends in the day are hours that are part of his life, as an example  if he wasted hours in his day he is not being productive nor having fun then he is really wasting times (years) of his life

No matter how busy a person is, he, she should always take some few hours a day to take care of himself by himself only. I usually take some time to myself during the day but I really love taking quality time for myself, few hours before I sleep. It helps me to take care of me self ( my ideas and physically ) In that time I release or let go of all the negative ideas and try to improve myself mentally.  I feel a person is mentally improving means, a person improve or at least try to improve his life style, he/she feel loved and a person is enjoying his own company.

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A person’s privacy and secrets

I had noticed recently there are some people who do not know the difference between a secret and a person’s privacy. I do see their way of thinking, the difference is not a lot.

A person’s privacy From the dictionary: The state or condition of being free from being observed or disturbed by other people: My opinion: A person’s privacy means a person should be allowed to have his ( me ) time. It could be personal and he/ she may share it with others.

(Me time) means, from the dictionary: time spent relaxing on one’s own as opposed to working or doing things for others, seen as an opportunity to reduce stress or restore energy. .A Secret means from the dictionary: something that is kept or meant to be kept unknown or unseen by others. My opinion: A secret means a person has something or information that no person in the entire world could know about it even if they try.

There is a different meaning to it and sadly, it is most commonly used: secrets means information that is about the privacy of other people.

I love privacy, that does not have secrets. I mean a person is free to do anything he wants without the feelings of there are other people around him, it lets a person be his true self. Respecting other people’s privacy such as leaving that personal stuff just for him may help people to respect that person even more.

 

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كأنه مشغول

في ناس في الدنيا تحب ان توهم الاخرين بانهم مشغولين او لديهم جدول اعمال مزدحم ضنا منهم ان الاخرين ستكون فكرتهم عنهم انهم اشخاص ذوو قيمة و لكن الحقيقه غير ذلك . من الجيد ان يكون للانسان اهداف و اعمال يوميه ولا بأس ان يعتذر عن مقابلة الاخرين بسبب انشغاله كالدراسة او ممارسة الرياضة مثلا  اذا كان حقا يفعل ما يقوله .

لاحظت ان بعض الناس يستخدمون هذه الأعذار فقط لكي يتهربوا من الموعد او الجلوس مع الاخرين . ظنا منهم ان الناس ستعطيهم اهمية اكثر ولن يكتشفوا الحقيقة عنهم و لكن الحقيقة دوما تظهر مهما طال الوقت. غالبا الناس لا يحبون الاشخاص الذين لا يحترمونهم او لا يحترمون وقتهم . انشغال الانسان بحياته شيء طبيعي و مهم لكي يطور حياته ولكن استخدام المسؤليات اليومية المتكررة كآعذار فهذاغالبا له معنى اخر، للاسف و هو ان هذا الشخص لا يحب ان يكون في المكان الذي سيذهب اليه.

غالبا عندما تظهر حقيقة الشخص ، ستقل قيمته عند الاخرين و بالتالي سيقلل احترام الاخرين له و ان ابدو عكس ذلك في حضوره بمعنى الاحترام الحقيقي للانسان من قبل الاخرين، انهم يكنون له مودة واحترام ان كان غائبا أو حاضرا.

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Accept others in your life

Accepting others in your life means really respecting their ideas when you do not agree with them. When a person put rules and expectations from others, he is really making it hard for himself to have friends and he is limiting himself from exploring new ideas in life just because he had put a label on others according to his brief information of them. I think this way will limit his experience in life.

 A person should accept other people’s opinion when they do not have the same opinion as him. Accepting others in a person’s life means accepting the fact, they have the right to show their opinions, ideas and beliefs in front of you even if they are not agreeing with you they should not feel threatened.

Usually, when a person accepts a certain person in his life, such as a friend it should mean he accept his flaws too, even though that does not mean a person does not try to improve himself but I mean he should not always point out his friend’s flaws all of the time. Ironically once a person admits his flaws to himself, he usually tries to improve them.

 

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سعادتك في نظرتك للحياة

الحياة مليئه بالاشياء و الاحداث السيئه و السعيدة في ان واحد. اذا الإنسان يريد ان يسعد و يستمتع في حياته يجب عليه دائما التطلع الى الاشياء الجماليه ، الافكار ذات الهدف النبيل او الافعال التي تغير حياته للافضل لان التحسر على ما فات لا يفيد اي انسان .في رأيي لدى الانسان مكبره يستعملها كلما فكر او تكلم مع اي احد لانه عندما الانسان يفكر او يتكلم عن اي موضوع، هو يركز عليه فلماذا الانسان يركز على السلبيات في حياته دون محاولة اصلاحها فعليا؟ يجب على الانسان ان يحاول تكرارا و مرارا ان يحل مشاكل حياته او المشاكل التي تسيطر على حياته . المشاكل تحل بالتصرفات لا بالكلام فقط.

في بعض الأحيان ننشغل في استخدام هواتفنا المحمولة لدرجة ان ننسى أن نعيش او ان نشعر ان هناك أشياء جميلة في الحياة . هذه الاشياء الجميلة ممكن ان تكون بسيطة مثل هذا البيضة التي تنير بالوان مختلفة 

 

ليس بالضرورة ان تكون درجة الاستمتاع و الفرح لدى الانسان مرتبطة بكمية المال التي يمتلكها ولا عدد الناس الذين يعرفهم. .

غالبا السعادة تكون موجودة في كل مكان ، فقط يجب على الانسان ان يضع المكبرة الخاصة به على الأشياء او المواضيع الفرحة .

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Being confident in reaching you GOAL

Self-confidence is the most important type. It what allows a person to go towards his goal or goals in life. Usually, when a person is confident to reach his goals, it means he trust his knowledge and his judgment on that topic. Being confident gives a person a push to go towards the goals of his life.

One thing that I recently discovered that a person should be fully insistence and sometimes stubborn in reaching his goals or he will have hard times in reaching his goals and he will almost be wasting many years of his life without trying to reach his goals even if they were clear and simple for him.

Having confidence in yourself is a great thing because it shows to others that you are really ready to do the thing that you want to do, such as, if a person wants to study even if he is older than his classmates in many years and he still shows up there, he goes to the lessons then he will learn new topics but if he did not have confidence in his self then anything that could happen in the class will affect him such as if he answered a question in a wrong way, he might get disappointed by himself and he might think others are criticizing him, but in reality when he has a strong personality it means he will be confident most of the times and he will go after the certificate he wants or his goal with OUT letting anything interfere with his decision or stops him from reaching his goals.

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Happiness can be everywhere

Most people if not every person wants to find happiness. People most of the times think of happiness that comes from big things such as changing the country they are living in. They forget the simple, very important things in life that could bring happiness too, such as hearing water running down from a fountain or bird’s sounds and their beauty. Being with kids, I discovered, the younger the kid’s age is the happier I have become. I think I feel that feeling because I feel happiness is simple,

Happiness can be found in simple  things :

  • Running  water fountain ( small things)
  • Seeing birds or interacting with animals
  • Good weather
  • Flowers and other natural environments
  • Family being safe and happy

Big things: 

  1. Trying to reach a goal.
  2. Getting the results of the actions that you had been doing for the past months, they are the results you hoped for.
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