تقبل الأخرين كما هم

عندما يتحدث شخص ما أو يكتب عن موضوع واحد فقط فهذا يعني شيئين ، الموضوع يهمه جدا او ليس لديه اَي شيئ اخر مثير في حياته. في بعض الأحيان التخصص شيئ جيد و مفيد مثل تخصص طبييب الأسنان و لكن اذا كان الإنسان لا يتحدث مع الأخرين أو يكتب إلا في موضوع معين فهذا في رأيي يعني هذا الانسان لديه تجارب محدودة في الحياة .

في هذا العصر الحاضر يسهل على مستخدم الأجهزة ذو الاتصال بالإنترنت ان يتعرف على طرق تفكير الآخرين وآرائهم في شتى المواضيع فلا يوجد عذر للناس ان لا تكتشف طرق جديدة للتفكير و تقبل آراء الآخرين و هي مختلفة او عندما تكون ضدهم.

في رأي يجب على اَي إنسان ان يقرأ و يشاهد فديوات أو معلومات عن تجارب قيمه لأخرين حتى اذا كان لا يتفق معهم في الرأي لأن هذه التجربة ممكن ان تعطي الإنسان معلومات قيمة عن تجارب الأخرين في الحياة و الإستفادة منهم دون الحاجة لخوض نفس التجربة . من المعروف ان اذا الانسان لديه تجارب و معلومات مختلفة فإنه أسهل بالتعامل مع الأخرين، فيكون اكثر مرنونه .

عندما الانسان يتحدتث مع الاخرين او يشترك الاخرين راىئيه في مواقع التواصل فانه يشارك او يبين للاخرين قسم من شخصيته فاذا الانسان لا ينوع بمواضيعه التي يطرحا فهذا يعني تفكيره و جهده منصب نحو موضوع واحد فقط ، فاذا تنوعانواع المواضيع الذي كان يطرحها للاخرين فانه يشاركهم كل او اغلب افكاره و ارائه في كل جوانب الحياة.غالبا اذا الشخص يتقبل اراء الاخرين و هم معاكسه لرآيه  سيكون محبوب اكثر بين الناس . الحياة فيها احداث من شتى الانواع و هناك اراء للناس في كل موضوع فاذا .الانسان فقط يشارك الاخرين في موضوع معين فهذا بمثابة ان هذا الانسان يضع نفسه في غرفة صغيره جدا و مغلقه.

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Smart technology and people

Did the smartphones and other technology forces people in the same place to stop talking to each other or they just use them to avoid people to communicate with them and blame the smart mobiles  for their behaviours?

Most people if not all behaves in that way: Uses his phone in public. 

I think people MOST of the times chose to use their phones. There are many reasons a person behaves in that way in public or in a gathering.

  • Being board
  • There are really interesting things on the net that attract them.

Some people may see a person uses a phone in public is an impolite thing to do because it may put an invisible wall between people who are sitting together in the same place. There are some circumstances a person needs to use his phone while he is with others and it is accepted if he did but most of the times it is not accepted.

 

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الجزيره و الانترنت

 .في 18 مارس 2016 ذهبت أنا وعائلتي في رحلة بالقارب إلى جزيرة، لم نذهب إليها من قبل. انها جزيرة مسكان.
!! عندما كنا بالقرب من الجزيرة تم قطع الإنترنت !!! فكرة بماذا افعل لكي استمتع بالرحله بدون الاتصال بالانترنت

قررت أن اصور بكامرتي و كامرة هاتفي، وفي وقت لاحق سوف احملها على مواقع اتواصل الاجتماعية.

 

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كان الرمل ناعم ، شكله رطب لكن هو ناشف ، كان يوجد قواقع جميله .

تحدثنا (أنا وعائلتي) كنت قد شعرت هذا هو شيء الذي لم يكن موجود بكثره بايام السابقه! الناس للدردشة والتحدث معهم.

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الساحل في جزيره مسجان )مسكان)

حاولنا ان نصيد السمك ولكن لم نصداد اي شيئ. برغم  من ذالك كانت رحله مفيده لان كان بامكان ان نعيش يومنا مثل ايام قبل انتشار اللانترنت بشكل شاسع.

 

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وأضاف غروب الشمس الجمال للرحلة

 للانترنت فوائد كثيره كسهوله العثور علي المعلومه ولكن يجب الحذر لان ليس كل شيئ معروض علي الانترنت بالامكان الوثوق به ويجب علي اي شخص ان لا يجعل الانترنت و مواقع التواصل الاجتماعي شغله الشاغل لان هذه الطريقه قد تمنعه من العيش في حياه اجتماعيه حقيقيه.

 

 

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Occasions and having fun

There are sometimes a person goes to a specific place because most people he knows goes there, but he do not have fun in that place! A person could always search for the special thing in every place or event he goes to,that lets him feel happy.

Every person has his own interests and ideas he likes to talk and hear about them. He should always try to be with people who share his interests to have fun while he hears them and talk to them, by this way you will be looking forward to go to a family gathering. Each person should not force others to hear him or just talk about his favourite topics.

Each person has his own reasons that let him do or avoid doing specific actions or behaviours,he should never be forced to show the reasons he did a specific thing or if he went to a specific place. A person should not do any action or be in any place just because others are there, such as if a person’s family are in a specific place but he do not feel he wants to be there, he should not go because if he went while he do not want he will feel board and may let others feel nerves too.

Family gathering for specific occasion should not let a person feel he his forced to go there. When a person trains himself to always see or pay more attention to the things or people who let him be happier, he will have fun in almost every place he go to.

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Photos off, Real life on

There are some people who like to show off, they are willing to do anything just to show others they can have the things other has. In these days, with the social media accounts they make it easier for a person to show off his things or sometimes himself. It is very good idea to use social media to advertise or talk about something or idea a person did or have but sometimes a person uses social media places in a wrong way.

Sometimes when a person puts lots of photos of himself without any occasion or reason, he or she is just telling others to see her or his face,body and not the ideas. Social media places are not places for a person to put in them all of his personal life photos and videos. The social media places are meant to connect people together, in these days people are being together by sitting together with their bodies but he is communicating with people who are in a social media places. They are not together in any kind of gathering, family or friends because they are busy taking photos using their mobiles to take photos or videos and they forget to really live the moment with their real, full attention.

A person should really live the moment with his full attention, such as if a person is eating cake and he is talking in a conversation, he should not suddenly stop talking just to take a photo of the cake he is eating to share it with friends he do not really know in real life. When a person really pays attention in the thing he is doing rather than the photo,video or words he writes about it, he will really live in that moment and he will most likely be happier too.  A person should have a real life, not a life were he always shows off his thing he does. When a person always shares in the social media his daily things or the things he does most of the times but not daily, he won’t be really have privacy in his life.

 

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Eye Messages

Eye contact is very powerful but it may get misunderstood since it does not use words or sign language. Most of the times eye contact reveals a person’s true feelings. Some people who is good with eye contact may send messages to others just by their look in their eyes.
There are some people do not think eye contact really important in any time.

Eye contact can send many different kinds of messages such as hate, love, anger or sadness. If two people who are sitting together in the same room but not really close to each other, they may communicate just through their eyes.

Most of the times eye to another eye contact is known for love. This is not always true. Eye contact could be used to send any kind of messages to the other person. Off course the stronger their relationship the easier and better they will be understanding each other silent messages or eye to eye messages will be.

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