In some cultures, men should to stick firmly to their words, but women do not have to. Usually people respects a person who says something and do not change his words later. A person’s behaviours should prove his words,phrase. Men and women should behave in that way.This does not mean a person never changes his thoughts and behaves as a rock, a person should behave to similar to a tree. ( For the tree and rock, you can read ways of living article)
Most of the times when a person do as he said he would do, people will start to treat him as a grown up person. A person whose behaviours and words proves the same thing is a real mature, strong person. Most on the times when a person’s behaviours are the opposite of his words, others will not really depend on him in anything he says.
Usually a person needs to have a strong personality and should be really convinced in the subject or ideas he is talking about to do the things he said he will do. Most of the times grownups are respected because they do not frequently change their words meanings. A person should always think many times about the words he planing to say because once they have been said, a person who said them should prove for others he really mean them.