انت بادر أولا

،‪ في الأونه الأخيره لاحظت غالبا الناس يظهرون ردود افعالهم اكثر من ان هم يبادرون و كأن يجب على الجميع ان لا يبادرون بطرح افكارهم، أو ممنوع عليهم ان يبادرون لكن يجب عليهم ان يظهرون للاخرين ردود افعالهم اتجاه مواضيع مختلفة . عندما يبادرالشخص  بطرح افكارة ، فهو يضيف تنوع جديد من الأحاديث و الواضيع المتنوعة ولكن  إذا كل انسان فقد يظهر ردود افعاله اتجاه الآخرين و احداث الحياة فهو لن يضيف شيئ  أو افكار جديدة وغالبا يكون نوع الطرح ممل، غير جاذب للاخرين لأنه لم يصنع رأيه بنفسه أو يظيف شيء جديد .

التأثربالاخرين ليس بالظرورة شيئ سيئ، ممكن ان يكون العكس لكن في اعتقادي اذا الإنسان دائما ينتظر من الأخرين ان يفعلو له الاشياء فهو كطفل صغير لكن في جسم انسان كبير في العمر. مثلا اذا الانسان وقع في مشكله لكن لا يسعى لحلها و يلوم الاخرين فهو، فقط ينتظر من الاخرين حلها فهو لم يكبر بعد.لكن اذا الانسان الذي وقع في مشكله كان يسعى لحلها حتى لو في بعض الاحيان يلوم الناس الذين سببوا له المشكله فهو انسان مبادر في نظري لانه يبادر الى تحسين حياته .

ليكون لديك آفعال و ليس دائما ردة فعل

في اغلب الاحيان الافكار الجديدة لا تجد الكثير من الناس الذين يتقبلونها و هذا ممكن ان يسب عائق لدى بعض الناس فيمنعهم ان يشاركوا الاخرين افكارهم و مشاريعهم المستقبلية، لكن كل شخص له حياته و افكاره الخاصة التي يعتقد انها مناسبة له. اعندما الإنسان يشارك الاخرين افكاره و مشاريعه، يجب عليه أن لا يتحبط من كلامهم لأنهم لن يشعروا بمشاعره

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ما تشاركه ، يعتقدون أنه إلى الأبد

لاحضت في الاونه الاخيره عندما الانسان يكشف للاخرين قسم صغير جدا عن مواهبة او شخصيته او ارائه، سيعتقدون هذا الشيء ، هي الطريقة الوحيدة التي يقضي كل ايامه ، كمثال اذا علم الاخرين اني احب القرائه ، فانهم يعتقدون اني طول الوقت خلال السنه لا اعمل اي شيء ثاني كهواية سوى القراءة .

اعتقد هذا نوع من التفكير،غير منطقي ، لان الانسان يحتاج للتغير في يوميه و لو تغير بسيط و لهذا السبب اعتقد الانسان يحتاج الى التنوع في هواياته لان التنوع بالهواية تدفع الانسان للتفكير في طرق مختلفة و بالتالي سيتغير اسلوب و نوعية احاديثه . السبب الثاني: لان غالبا اذا الانسان لم يغير نوعية الاشياء و الاحاديث الذي يشاركها مع الاخرين، اعتقد الناس سيتجنبون الجلوس معه لان غالبا الناس يريدون يستمعون الى احدث الافكار و المواضيع او اشياء لم يكون لديهم علم بها من قبل.

الاحاديث، ما تشاركه مع الاخرين هو الشيء الذي يمكنهم التعرف عليك من خلاله فاذا الانسان فقط يشارك الاخرين الاحاديث من نوع الثقيل ( الاحاديث ذو وزن التي ممكن ان تغير حياة الاخرين للافضل) فانهم سيرونه انسان ذو قيمة و فكر لكن هذا لا يعني ان يجب عليه ان لا يبادر المرح لان هذا ايضا يعطيه نوع من الاحترام .

بجميع الاحوال يجب على الانسان ان لا يسمح للاخرين ان يصنعوا له صورته لديهم فهذا واجبه هو فقط .

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Do you behave in social media as would you behave in real life ?

I recently noticed some people’s social media do not represent their life. I know it do not have to but I think pretending to be someone else all the day is exhausting, the thing I recently noticed and it took me by surprise, I needed some days to reflect or think about it before I write about in in the blog.

I notice some people behave in a certain way in the real life but they act the opposite on social media, on their personal accounts. I do understand that some people like to create or draw a certain personality, in front of others in real life and on social media to get certain amount of respect but I think it is over used. For example there are some people are understanding in conversations and accept to listen to the other and opposite opinion on social media places but when they are confronted in real life, they behave the opposite. I think that behavior is really ridiculous.

Here are some questions for you to help you discover the answers:

1.Are you showing the truth to others ?

  1. Dose your social media accounts show the real you or the words and photos, pictures and videos you post are they just there to show others a “fake, improved version of yourself?

I do see the reasons when business accounts behave in that way and I think they have too. What I am writing about here is not business accounts. I meant is personal accounts. I think since the account is for personal use, it at least show the TRUE and positive sides of a person’s life if he, she wants to but it should be true. Such as if a person always say in videos and writes about forgiving others he, she should apply that idea in his/her real life, if a person did not do the things or ideas that it is in the accounts, it most likely means that person is not real to himself and his followers!

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كبار الصغار

  لاحضت من فترة قصيرة، في ناس ينجذبون نحو الشكوى من كل شيئ، كالجو . برغم من علم الناس ان الشكوى لن تغيير شيئ. الشكوى يجب ان تكون للاشياء الذي لها قيمه في حياة الانسان و مستقبله التي تسيطر على حياته اليومية ويريد ان يجد حلا لها لكن لا يستطيع فيآخذ راى الاخرين.

اعتقد ان الناس ، الشباب و الكبار في السن يريدون جذب انتباه الأخرين لهم كالاطفال لكن هم كبار فيستخدمون المواضيع المختلفة و في بعض الاحيان تكون مستفزة لجذب انتباه الاخرين لهم. انا اعتقد لدى الكبار نفس احتياجات الاطفال من ناحية التعامل مع الاخرين لكن معقدة اكثر .الصغار ( الاطفال) غالبا لا يكون عندهم مشكلة ان يطلبوا ان يهتم بهم الاخرين، و هذا الطبع ليس موجود عند الكبار

لكن لاحضت في بعض الاحيان الناس يتكلمون في طريقة استفزازية طوال الوقت كانهم في حرب، لكن المفترض هم  يتجاذبون الاحاديث لمعرفة اخبار حياة كل شخص منهم و افكاره و يستمتعون بوقتهم و تنويع المعلومات لكل واحد عن كل موضوع دون   توتر و عصبية. في رأي هذا التصرف السابق  ممكن ان يكون من اسباب ابتعاد الناس عن التجمعات لان اغلب الناس عندما  يذهبون للتجمعات يريدون ان يقضوا وقت مرح و مفيد. .

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People are books

People are like books ,they are all  similar from the outside (their appearance) but their content are different. Most of the times, the deeper the reader reads in a book, it will be more interesting or in some cases a reader decide to stop reading a specific book because it is not interesting. The idea can be applied to any conversation too.

The depth of a conversation is not measured by the time it starts and finish, but by how it effect the people who are communicating, for example if the conversation is about things that do not really matter to a person or dose not effect his life, the conversation will still be shallow even if it took hours or more,but if a conversation is five minutes but it has the effect of changing the perspective to the better, I consider it a deep conversation.

I know most of the relationships start with shallow conversations but the problem in my opinion if the conversation stayed in that level forever, that means the people who are talking together are not really communicating. Communication is really important for any type of relationship.

I think a person should read many kind of books, books that talk about different subjects and a reader should read all kinds of books even ones that contains opposite ideas than the ones the reader has. I think this way let’s a person have strong opinions about different things in life and the reasons of why he has those specific opinion about any specific thing, he won’t be just copping others just because he is sitting with them.

Make sure your existing makes a difference for the better, in the place you are in.

I think people are should be similar to fiction books they tell others their opinions not like unification books, the try to tell fact all of the times.

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With others

Most people think that if they pretend to be interested in a specific topic, it won’t appear to others they are pretending but actually, people do notice.

Similar to creating a character in a story but in real life, a person act or behave as they think how the image in his/her mind could do. I think this is the reason people do not show their true selves.  

In my opinion: When a person shows to others his true self, others will love to spend thier time with him and they will really get to know each other because they can show him their real thoughts too. It could be scary for a person to show others his true self without comparing himself with the idea he has in his mind but it is worth it.

Just discovered: To be interesting to others: you have to be interested in the topic you are talking about.

If you are not interested even if you are showing to the other person the opposite, he will notice in a way or another.

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Be you to be creative

I was forcing myself to write today, but I could not have a good idea in my opinion to write about but then I realized the good ( the one that get a lot of likes and reactions ) articles and post in my other social media are not planned,  I just write the comment, what I feel or think that is suitable in that moment.

I realized that act should be applied here. There are sometimes ( in the past years} I force myself to write daily in my blogs but for that reason the ideas or post I had wrote in those times weren’t successful or got attention because the ideas behind them weren’t good enough for me that is why I could not work on them, to post good quality articles. I love writing since I was a kid but there are sometimes I run out of ideas or sometimes I have a {writer block} that when I can’t write down any good quality  articles.

There are some writers that are able to write, publish good quality things daily and I think it is very good for them, but I realized when I force myself in writing I would not write something worth reading. I think writing is some kind of art  snd creativity and as most people know creativity is not something a person could force, its about expressing your true self.

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تضيع الوقت

الوقت شيئ ثمين و يجب ان يكون مهم جدا لكل انسان لأن اذا الثانية الواحدة ضاعت من عمر الانسان فانه لا يستطيع استرجاعها . حياة الانسان مجموع من السنين و الايام و الساعات و الدقائق و الثواني التي يعيشها الانسان، فيجب عليه ان لا يضيع وقته، ايامه لا يفعل شيئ ذات قيمة بالنسبة له.

عندما يتفكر الانسان في فكرة ( دقائق يومه هي التي تبني حياته ) بعدها لن يستطيع ان يسمح لنفسه ان يضيع وقته في اي موضوع لا يساعده ان يصل لهدفه.  غالبا عندما الانسان يتذمر بان يومه ممل و لديه وقت طويل لا يعمل شيء فيه، فانه غالبا يكون في الحقيقة لا يسعى لتحقيق اهدافه. عندما يكون الانسان في طريقه لتحقيق هدفه فهو غالبا لن يشعر بالضجر.

 (عند تضيع الوقت لو بضع ثواني ، في الحقيقة انت تضيع حياتك)

عندما اتذكر هذة الفكرة السابقه ، في الغالب اتوقف حالا عن تضيع وقتي . لكل انسان امنيات واهداف يريد ان يصل لها لكن لا يستطيع الوصول لها دون العمل او السعي لها.  الانسان يجب عليه معرفة كيفية ادارة يومه و مسؤلياته لكي يتمكن من تحقيقها دون الشعور بالتعب في بداية ان نصف الطريق و ثم الفتور من محاولة تحقيق الهدف

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Organizing from watching others

Watching organizing the place videos on YouTube, made me make my place more organized. I watch a lot of them and there are three channels that changed me.

I always had an idea: my place represents my feelings and thoughts.

My ideas and the way of thinking shows in the room or in the place that I live in, such as if a person has organized thoughts and he truly understands himself then the place he lives in, most likely will be organized. I recently discovered the opposite of this idea is true!

I took some of the tips that were helpful to me and applied them to my place. I always had some not organized place to for the small stuff that I have,need but then things changed:

I had organized my place, inside the cabinets and the things that on display.

Organizing my place inspired me to let my thoughts be organized too!

Now it’s like that

Now it’s like that

The make up was hardly organized, there were half of them in that box and the others are scattered all over the place, but then I bought the make up holder, about a year before I had saw the videos, I was not really using it, my makeup were in different parts in my room, then after I saw the videos I used it more.

Now it’s like that

I discovered: when the place is well organized and clean it will effect the person’s mood and productivity!!

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You’r mood is your responsibilty

Sometimes when a person socialize with others their mood effects him. Each person should create is own atmosphere that he likes and feels cosy while in it, at least few hours before night sleep time. I had been doing this method for a while and it really helps me emotionally and makes me feel happier.

Each person no matter where he is or whats are his thoughts and believes, if he is surrounding himself with negative conversations then he will feel sadness or nerves. I am not  saying a person should avoid being with others all the times, but the hours a persons spends in the day are hours that are part of his life, as an example  if he wasted hours in his day he is not being productive nor having fun then he is really wasting times (years) of his life

No matter how busy a person is, he, she should always take some few hours a day to take care of himself by himself only. I usually take some time to myself during the day but I really love taking quality time for myself, few hours before I sleep. It helps me to take care of me self ( my ideas and physically ) In that time I release or let go of all the negative ideas and try to improve myself mentally.  I feel a person is mentally improving means, a person improve or at least try to improve his life style, he/she feel loved and a person is enjoying his own company.

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